A relative clause takes two sentences that share a noun and stitches them together using a relative pronoun — que, quien, el cual, lo que, cuyo, donde, and a few others. This master reference covers every Spanish relative pronoun, when to use each one, how commas change the meaning, and when to slip into the subjunctive. If you can't decide between que and quien, or el cual and el que, start here.
The key insight: Spanish has several relative pronouns where English mostly makes do with "who", "which", and "that". The different forms exist to mark formality, to refer back unambiguously, and to fit the grammar after prepositions.
1. Que — The Workhorse
Que is the most common relative pronoun by far. It can refer to people or things, both singular and plural, in restrictive clauses (no commas), and it works as both subject and direct object.
La mujer que vive al lado es abogada.
The woman who lives next door is a lawyer.
Los estudiantes que estudian mucho aprueban el examen.
The students who study hard pass the exam.
Tengo un amigo que habla cinco idiomas.
I have a friend who speaks five languages.
Unlike English, Spanish never drops the relative pronoun. Where English can say "the book I read", Spanish requires el libro *que leí*.
Que can also appear after short prepositions (a, con, de, en) when referring to things:
Este es el bolígrafo con que firmé el contrato.
This is the pen with which I signed the contract.
La casa en que vivimos es pequeña.
The house (that) we live in is small.
In many of these cases contemporary speakers actually prefer el que / el cual (see below). For the full list, see relative que.
2. Quien / Quienes — People Only
Quien (singular) and quienes (plural) refer only to people. They appear in two main contexts:
- After a preposition: the cleanest way to refer to a person after a, de, con, para, por, sin, etc.
- In non-restrictive clauses (set off by commas), as a stylistic alternative to que.
| Use | Example |
|---|---|
| After a preposition | La persona con quien hablé... |
| Non-restrictive clause (with commas) | Mi madre, quien vive en Lima, me visita. |
| Restrictive subject clause (rare, formal) | Quienes llegaron tarde no entraron. |
La chica con quien estudio es muy inteligente.
The girl with whom I study is very intelligent.
Mi abuelo, quien nació en Ecuador, habla quechua.
My grandfather, who was born in Ecuador, speaks Quechua.
Quien no arriesga, no gana.
He who doesn't take risks, doesn't win. (proverb)
Don't use quien in a restrictive clause without a preposition — use que instead:
- Right: La mujer que vive al lado es abogada.
- Wrong: La mujer quien vive al lado es abogada.
See relative quien.
3. El que / La que / Los que / Las que — Emphatic and Post-Prepositional
The forms el que, la que, los que, las que function as an emphatic replacement for que. They're used:
- After prepositions (especially longer ones like por, para, sobre, durante, sin), particularly when the antecedent is a thing.
- To focus attention on one referent out of several — like English "the one that".
- In non-restrictive clauses, as a more formal alternative.
La razón por la que vine es que necesito ayuda.
The reason for which I came is that I need help.
Ese es el hotel en el que nos quedamos.
That's the hotel in which we stayed.
De todos los libros, el que más me gustó fue el primero.
Of all the books, the one I liked most was the first.
Los que llegaron temprano recibieron un regalo.
The ones who arrived early received a gift.
The gender and number agree with the antecedent noun. See el que and el cual.
4. El cual / La cual / Los cuales / Las cuales — Formal
The el cual series is the most formal and most unambiguous of the relatives. It's most at home after long prepositions, in non-restrictive clauses, and in written Spanish. In everyday speech you'll hear it rarely; in a legal document or a newspaper editorial, it's common.
La empresa, la cual fue fundada en 1980, tiene sucursales en todo el país.
The company, which was founded in 1980, has branches throughout the country.
El tratado según el cual los países cooperan es vital.
The treaty according to which the countries cooperate is vital.
A key advantage of el cual: when there are multiple possible antecedents, it can make clear which one you mean, because it agrees in gender and number with its antecedent:
Hablé con la hija del presidente, la cual me dijo la verdad.
I spoke with the president's daughter, who (the daughter) told me the truth.
Here la cual makes clear that "la hija" is the speaker, not el presidente. If you said quien me dijo, the reference would be ambiguous.
5. Lo que — The Neuter ("What, That Which")
Lo que is a neuter relative that doesn't refer to any specific noun but to an idea, action, or situation. It corresponds to English "what" in sentences like I know what you mean.
No entiendo lo que dices.
I don't understand what you're saying.
Lo que más me gusta es bailar.
What I like most is dancing.
Haz lo que quieras.
Do what(ever) you want.
Eso es lo que pensaba.
That's what I was thinking.
You can think of lo que as meaning "the thing that" — the grammatical head is the neuter article lo, and que is the actual relative pronoun. See relative lo que.
6. Lo cual — Refers to a Whole Clause
Lo cual is similar to lo que, but it specifically refers back to an entire previous clause rather than to an implied noun. Think of it as "which" referring to the whole thing that was just said.
Llegó tarde, lo cual molestó a todos.
He arrived late, which annoyed everyone.
No me llamó, lo cual me pareció extraño.
He didn't call me, which seemed strange to me.
Subieron los precios, lo cual nos sorprendió.
They raised the prices, which surprised us.
In each example, lo cual refers back to the entire previous idea — "arriving late", "not calling me", "raising prices" — not to any single noun. In many contexts lo que can be swapped in with only a slight shift in formality.
7. Cuyo / Cuya / Cuyos / Cuyas — "Whose"
Cuyo is the relative possessive — "whose" or "of which". It agrees with the thing possessed, not with the possessor, and it always comes directly before the noun it modifies.
| Form | Used with |
|---|---|
| cuyo | masculine singular noun |
| cuya | feminine singular noun |
| cuyos | masculine plural noun |
| cuyas | feminine plural noun |
El escritor cuyo libro ganó el premio es argentino.
The writer whose book won the prize is Argentinian.
Conocí a una chica cuya madre es doctora.
I met a girl whose mother is a doctor.
La casa cuyas ventanas están rotas está abandonada.
The house whose windows are broken is abandoned.
Cuyo is fairly formal and belongs mostly to written Spanish. In speech, native speakers often rephrase to avoid it (el escritor que ganó el premio con su libro). Never use cuyo in a direct question — for "whose?" as a question word, use ¿de quién?. See cuyo and cuyo in clauses.
8. Donde / Adonde — "Where"
Donde works as a relative adverb referring to places. Use adonde (or a donde) when direction/movement is implied.
La ciudad donde nací es muy pequeña.
The city where I was born is very small.
Este es el restaurante donde comimos ayer.
This is the restaurant where we ate yesterday.
No recuerdo el lugar de donde venía.
I don't remember the place (where) I was coming from.
You can substitute en el que / en la que for donde and al que / a la que for adonde, but donde is usually smoother. See relative donde.
9. Restrictive vs. Non-Restrictive — The Comma Rule
This is one of the most important distinctions in Spanish punctuation.
Restrictive (no commas)
A restrictive clause narrows down the noun — it answers "which one(s)?". Remove it and the sentence loses essential information.
Los estudiantes que estudian aprueban.
The students who study pass. (only those who study)
Here we're picking out only the studying students. Without que estudian, the sentence would mean all students pass.
Non-restrictive (with commas)
A non-restrictive clause adds extra information about an already-identified noun. Remove it and the core meaning survives.
Los estudiantes, que estudian, aprueban.
The students, who (all) study, pass. (all of them study and all pass)
Here all the students study, and we're noting that as additional information.
| Type | Commas? | Meaning | Usual pronouns |
|---|---|---|---|
| Restrictive | No | narrows down the noun | que (mostly); el que after prepositions |
| Non-restrictive | Yes | adds extra info | que, quien(es), el cual/la cual series |
Mi hermano, que vive en Chile, me visita cada año.
My brother, who lives in Chile, visits me every year. (I presumably have only one brother)
Mi hermano que vive en Chile me visita cada año.
My brother who lives in Chile visits me every year. (I have more than one brother; this is the one in Chile)
The comma changes the meaning. See restrictive relatives and non-restrictive relatives.
10. Subjunctive in Relative Clauses
A relative clause uses the subjunctive when the antecedent is:
- Unknown — you're looking for someone or something, but you don't know if they exist.
- Hypothetical — anyone who meets the criteria, whoever.
- Negative or nonexistent — there is no such person/thing.
With known, existing antecedents, use the indicative.
| Context | Mood | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Known antecedent | indicative | Tengo un amigo que habla chino. |
| Unknown antecedent | subjunctive | Busco un amigo que hable chino. |
| Negative antecedent | subjunctive | No conozco a nadie que hable chino. |
| Hypothetical "whoever" | subjunctive | Quien lo haga recibirá un premio. |
Tengo un amigo que sabe tocar el piano.
I have a friend who knows how to play the piano. (known — indicative)
Busco un amigo que sepa tocar el piano.
I'm looking for a friend who knows how to play the piano. (unknown — subjunctive)
No hay nadie que entienda este problema.
There's no one who understands this problem. (negative — subjunctive)
Haré lo que quieras.
I'll do whatever you want. (hypothetical — subjunctive)
See subjunctive in relative clauses.
11. Choosing Between Relatives After a Preposition
After a preposition, you have several options. Here's a quick guide:
| Antecedent | Preposition | Preferred relative | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| person | short (a, con, de, en, por) | quien(es) or el que | el hombre con quien hablé |
| person | long (hacia, durante, contra) | quien(es) or el cual | el juez contra el cual protestó |
| thing | short (a, con, de, en, por) | el que / el cual / que | la casa en la que vivo |
| thing | long | el cual (formal) / el que | la razón por la cual vine |
| idea / whole clause | any | lo cual / lo que | Se fue, por lo cual me enojé. |
El profesor con quien estudio es muy exigente.
The professor I study with is very demanding.
El motivo por el cual me llamó es confidencial.
The reason he called me is confidential.
See relatives with prepositions.
12. Master Cheat Sheet
| Relative | Refers to | Typical use | Agreement |
|---|---|---|---|
| que | people & things | most common; restrictive | invariable |
| quien / quienes | people only | after prepositions; non-restrictive | number |
| el que (etc.) | people & things | after prepositions; "the one who" | gender + number |
| el cual (etc.) | people & things | formal; long prepositions; ambiguity | gender + number |
| lo que | idea / "what" | "the thing that" | invariable neuter |
| lo cual | whole previous clause | "which" = that fact | invariable neuter |
| cuyo / cuya / cuyos / cuyas | possession | "whose"; formal; before the possessed noun | gender + number of possessed noun |
| donde | place | "where" | invariable |
| adonde / a donde | destination | "(to) where" | invariable |
13. Putting It Together
La casa donde viví de niño, que tenía un jardín enorme, ya no existe.
The house where I lived as a child, which had a huge garden, no longer exists.
Busco a alguien que pueda ayudarme con lo que necesito.
I'm looking for someone who can help me with what I need.
El autor cuyo libro leíste es el mismo con quien cené anoche.
The author whose book you read is the same one I had dinner with last night.
Me gustan las personas que dicen lo que piensan.
I like people who say what they think.
Lo que más me sorprendió fue que nadie se quejara, lo cual me pareció extraño.
What surprised me most was that nobody complained, which seemed strange to me.
Summary
- Que is the default relative pronoun for people and things in restrictive clauses.
- Quien/quienes refers only to people, typically after prepositions or in non-restrictive clauses.
- El que / la que / los que / las que is an emphatic, gender-agreeing alternative that also works after prepositions.
- El cual / la cual / los cuales / las cuales is the most formal and disambiguating form.
- Lo que is the neuter "what, that which"; lo cual refers to a whole preceding clause.
- Cuyo / cuya / cuyos / cuyas means "whose" and agrees with the possessed noun.
- Donde and adonde are relative adverbs for places.
- Commas change meaning: restrictive clauses narrow down the noun; non-restrictive clauses add extra info.
- The subjunctive appears in relative clauses when the antecedent is unknown, hypothetical, or negative.
Master this system and complex Spanish sentences become much easier to build and parse.
Related Topics
- Relative Pronoun: QueB1 — Que is the most common relative pronoun — 'that', 'which', 'who'
- Relative Pronoun: Quien/QuienesB1 — Quien refers only to people and is used after prepositions or in non-restrictive clauses
- El Que and El CualB2 — Longer relative forms used for emphasis or after prepositions
- Lo Que and Lo CualB2 — Neuter relative pronouns meaning 'what' or 'which' referring to an idea
- Cuyo (Whose)B2 — Cuyo means 'whose' and agrees with the thing possessed, not the possessor
- Donde and Adonde as RelativesB1 — Donde (where) and adonde (to where) in relative clauses
- Restrictive Relative ClausesB1 — Learn how restrictive relative clauses identify and specify nouns without commas in Spanish.
- Non-Restrictive Relative ClausesB1 — Use commas and a wider range of relative pronouns to add extra information to nouns in Spanish.
- Relative Clauses with PrepositionsB2 — Choose between que, el que, el cual, and quien when a relative clause follows a preposition.
- Cuyo in Relative ClausesB2 — Use cuyo, cuya, cuyos, and cuyas to express 'whose' in formal Spanish relative clauses.
- Subjunctive in Relative ClausesB2 — Use the subjunctive in relative clauses when the antecedent is unknown, hypothetical, or nonexistent.