Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij, en ik geef haar wat druiven.

Yes. In Dutch, delen met iemand is the normal pattern for to share something with someone.

• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij = Sofie shares her strawberries with me

The verb delen literally means to divide or to share, and with met it means sharing something with another person.

So the pattern is:

• iets delen met iemand = to share something with someone

For example:

• Ik deel mijn lunch met jou. = I share my lunch with you.

No, it has two different jobs here.

1. haar aardbeien
   Here haar is a possessive adjective, meaning her.

• haar aardbeien = her strawberries

2. ik geef haar wat druiven
   Here haar is an object pronoun, meaning her or to her.

• ik geef haar wat druiven = I give her some grapes

So English also uses her in two ways:

• her strawberries = possessive
• I give her grapes = object

Dutch does the same.

Because after a preposition like met, Dutch uses an object pronoun, not a possessive form.

• mij = me
• mijn = my/mine

So:

• met mij = with me
• mijn aardbeien = my strawberries

A native English speaker may mix these up because English my and me are very familiar, but Dutch makes the same distinction:

• met mij = with me
• voor mij = for me
• mijn boek = my book

Yes. Both are possible.

• met mij = fuller, slightly more stressed or formal
• met me = very common in everyday speech

So both of these are natural:

• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij.
• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met me.

In careful written Dutch, met mij may feel a bit more explicit, but met me is extremely normal in speech.

Because with geven, Dutch often puts the recipient directly after the verb, without aan.

• Ik geef haar wat druiven. = I give her some grapes.

This is very normal.

You can also say:

• Ik geef wat druiven aan haar.

But aan haar usually sounds more emphatic, contrastive, or a little less neutral. For example, you might use it if you want to stress her and not someone else.

So:

• ik geef haar wat druiven = neutral, standard
• ik geef wat druiven aan haar = possible, but more marked

Here wat means some.

So:

• wat druiven = some grapes

This wat is not the question word what. It is an indefinite quantity word.

You will often see wat before plural nouns or uncountable nouns:

• wat druiven = some grapes
• wat water = some water
• wat geld = some money

It often gives a softer, more natural idea of an unspecified amount.

Because other words are already doing that job.

In haar aardbeien, the possessive haar already determines the noun:

• haar aardbeien = her strawberries

You do not say:

• de haar aardbeien ❌

In wat druiven, the word wat functions as a quantity word:

• wat druiven = some grapes

So again, no article is needed.

This is similar to English:

• her strawberries — not the her strawberries
• some grapes — not the some grapes

Yes, both are plural.

• aardbei = strawberry

• aardbeien = strawberries

• druif = grape
• druiven = grapes

A useful spelling point:

• druif becomes druiven: the f changes to v
• aardbei becomes aardbeien

So if you want the singular sentence, you could have:

• Sofie deelt haar aardbei met mij, en ik geef haar een druif.

That would mean one strawberry and one grape.

Yes. This is normal main clause word order.

First clause:

• Sofie = subject
• deelt = conjugated verb
• haar aardbeien = object
• met mij = prepositional phrase

Second clause:

• ik = subject
• geef = conjugated verb
• haar = indirect object
• wat druiven = direct object

So both clauses follow standard Dutch main-clause order, where the conjugated verb is in the second position.

That is one of the core rules of Dutch word order.

Because the sentence joins two full clauses:

• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij
• ik geef haar wat druiven

In Dutch, a comma before en is often optional in simple cases, but it is commonly used when two full clauses are joined, especially if that makes the sentence clearer.

So this sentence is perfectly fine with the comma.

You may also see:

• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij en ik geef haar wat druiven.

That is also possible, but the comma helps readability.

They are both in the present tense, but they behave differently.

delen is a regular verb:

• ik deel
• jij deelt
• hij/zij deelt
• wij delen

So:

• Sofie deelt = Sofie shares

geven is irregular:

• ik geef
• jij geeft
• hij/zij geeft
• wij geven

So:

• ik geef = I give

A learner often notices that geven changes from -even to -eef in ik geef. That is just part of its irregular conjugation.

Because the two verbs use different patterns.

With delen, the person you share with is introduced by met:

• iets delen met iemand

With geven, the person receiving something is usually an indirect object without a preposition:

• iemand iets geven

So:

• Sofie deelt haar aardbeien met mij
• Ik geef haar wat druiven

This is something worth memorizing as part of each verb’s pattern, not just as vocabulary.

• delen met
• geven iemand iets