Maðurinn iðrast en hann getur ekki fyrirgefið sjálfum sér yfirsjónina.

Questions & Answers about Maðurinn iðrast en hann getur ekki fyrirgefið sjálfum sér yfirsjónina.

Why do we use sjálfum sér instead of just sér?
While sér alone provides the basic meaning of 'himself' (the dative reflexive pronoun), adding sjálfum adds emphasis, meaning 'himself' as opposed to someone else. It highlights the man's internal struggle: he might be able to forgive others, but he cannot forgive himself.
How do we know to put sjálfur in the form sjálfum here?
The word sjálfur acts like an adjective describing the pronoun it emphasizes. Because the verb fyrirgefa requires the person being forgiven to be in the dative case, the reflexive pronoun is sér. Therefore, sjálfur must match sér in case (dative), gender (masculine, referring to maðurinn), and number (singular), which gives us the form sjálfum.
Why is yfirsjónina in the accusative case?
The verb fyrirgefa (to forgive) governs two objects at once. The person you forgive takes the dative case (here, sjálfum sér), while the thing or action you are forgiving takes the accusative case (here, yfirsjónina).
iðrast ends in -st. Does that mean it is in the passive voice here?
No, iðrast is a middle voice verb that only exists in this -st form but carries a purely active meaning ('to repent' or 'to regret'). If we wanted to add exactly what he repents in the first clause, that object would take the genitive case, but here the verb stands alone without an object.

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