Breakdown of Walau bimbang, saya akhirnya memilih datang sebentar ke resepsi lalu pulang untuk istirahat.
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Walau means “although / even though”. In this sentence it introduces a contrast: Although (I was) unsure/hesitant…
You can usually treat these as near-synonyms:
- walau
- walaupun
- meski
- meskipun
All can mean “although / even though”.
Nuance:
- walau and meski are a bit more informal/short.
- walaupun and meskipun can feel a bit more formal or complete.
In most everyday speech, they are interchangeable, and walau works fine here.
The subject saya is understood from the main clause (saya akhirnya memilih…) and is simply omitted in the walau clause. This is very common in Indonesian when the subject is the same in both clauses.
So:
- Full version (more explicit):
Walau saya bimbang, saya akhirnya memilih… - Natural shortened version:
Walau bimbang, saya akhirnya memilih…
Both are grammatically correct; the shorter one just sounds more natural and less repetitive.
Bimbang means something like:
- hesitant
- uncertain
- torn / in doubt about what to do
It is not general “confusion” about understanding something. It’s more about being unsure which decision or choice to make.
So walau bimbang is closer to “although I was hesitant / unsure what to do”, not “although I was confused.”
Akhirnya means:
- finally / in the end / eventually
In this sentence, it shows that:
- There was some hesitation or a process of thinking.
- After that process, this is the decision the speaker made.
It doesn’t mean “final” in the sense of “final version” or “final exam”. It’s temporal: after some time / after considering things, in the end I chose…
Both are possible:
- memilih datang
- memilih untuk datang
In Indonesian:
- A verb like memilih (to choose) can be followed directly by another verb (datang) without untuk.
- Adding untuk (memilih untuk datang) is also correct, and can sound a bit more explicit or slightly more formal, but not by much.
So:
- saya akhirnya memilih datang = I finally chose to come.
- saya akhirnya memilih untuk datang = same meaning; just a bit longer.
Datang sebentar literally means “come for a short time”.
Nuance:
- The speaker will attend, but not stay long.
- In English you might say “drop by for a bit”, “come for a little while”, or “come briefly”.
So datang sebentar ke resepsi = “to come to the reception, but only for a short time.”
Resepsi means “reception”, usually a formal or semi-formal event where guests are received.
Very often in daily life, resepsi by itself does refer to a wedding reception, because that’s a very common type of reception people talk about. But context matters:
- resepsi pernikahan = wedding reception
- resepsi kenegaraan = state reception
In this sentence, many Indonesian speakers would automatically imagine a wedding reception, but grammatically it can be any kind of reception.
In …datang sebentar ke resepsi lalu pulang untuk istirahat, lalu means “then / and then / after that”.
Comparison:
- lalu – very common in narratives, neutral, often written and spoken.
- kemudian – a bit more formal or bookish than lalu, but similar meaning.
- terus – very colloquial in many dialects; can mean “then / and then / keep on”, often used in informal storytelling.
You could replace lalu here with kemudian with almost no change in meaning.
Replacing it with terus would sound more informal:
…datang sebentar ke resepsi, terus pulang untuk istirahat.
Pulang by itself usually implies “go home / return home”. The “to home” meaning is built into the verb.
So:
- pulang = to go back (home / to one’s base)
- pulang ke rumah = literally “go home to home”; still correct, just more explicit.
In everyday speech, pulang alone is normally enough, and that’s why the sentence uses only pulang.
Untuk here shows purpose:
pulang untuk istirahat = “(to) go home in order to rest / to go home so that I can rest.”
About dropping untuk:
- pulang istirahat is not natural in standard Indonesian.
- For purpose, you usually need untuk or another clear marker (or a different construction).
So the natural options are:
- pulang untuk istirahat
- pulang dan istirahat di rumah (= go home and rest at home)
Both relate to resting, but the forms are slightly different:
- istirahat can be:
- a noun: rest, a break
- a verb in casual speech: to rest
- beristirahat is clearly a verb: to take a rest / to rest
In untuk istirahat, istirahat is functioning like a verb meaning “to rest”.
You could also say untuk beristirahat; it sounds a bit more formal and “complete.”
Both:
- pulang untuk istirahat
- pulang untuk beristirahat
are correct and natural.
The comma separates the dependent clause from the main clause:
- Walau bimbang, = “Although (I was) hesitant,”
- saya akhirnya memilih… = “I finally chose…”
In Indonesian writing, it’s standard to put a comma after an initial clause introduced by walau / meski / karena / jika, etc.
So the comma is:
- Grammatically expected in careful writing.
- Helpful for readability, just like in English: “Although I was hesitant, I finally chose…”
A casual, spoken-style version might be:
- Walau masih bimbang, aku akhirnya milih dateng bentar ke resepsi, terus pulang buat istirahat.
Changes:
- saya → aku (more informal)
- memilih → milih (spoken shortening)
- datang → dateng (spoken pronunciation)
- sebentar → bentar (colloquial)
- lalu → terus (very common in speech)
- untuk → buat (informal “for / to”)
The original sentence is neutral and polite; the casual one fits friendly conversation among peers.