Questions & Answers about לא הכיבוד חשוב לה, אלא הזמן עם החברות שלה.
This is a very common Hebrew contrast pattern.
It means:
not X, but rather Y
or
it isn’t X that matters, but Y
So in this sentence:
לא הכיבוד חשוב לה, אלא הזמן עם החברות שלה.
the speaker is contrasting two things:
- הכיבוד = the refreshments / snacks
- הזמן עם החברות שלה = the time with her friends
A natural English equivalent is:
It’s not the refreshments that are important to her, but the time with her friends.
אלא is stronger and more corrective than אבל. It does not just mean but in a general sense; it means rather / instead after a negation.