Komşum darılınca ona çay götürdüm ve konuştuk.

Komşu means neighbor. The ending -um is the 1st person singular possessive suffix, so:

• komşu = neighbor
• komşum = my neighbor

Turkish often leaves out the separate word benim (my) when the possessive ending already shows the meaning. So komşum by itself already means my neighbor.

Darılınca comes from:

• darılmak = to get offended, to be upset, to take offense, to sulk
• -ınca / -ince = when, once, sometimes after

So darılınca means something like:

• when he/she got offended
• when he/she became upset
• once he/she got upset

In this sentence, it introduces the situation that happened before the main action.

No. -ınca / -ince / -unca / -ünce is not a main tense ending. It is an adverbial verb suffix that connects one action to another.

It often means:

• when
• once
• after

So in Komşum darılınca..., the idea is When my neighbor got upset...

It does not stand alone as the main verb of the sentence. The main finite verbs here are:

• götürdüm = I took
• konuştuk = we talked

Because ona is the dative form of o.

• o = he / she / it
• ona = to him / to her / to it

In the sentence, ona çay götürdüm means I took tea to him/her.

The -a / -e ending is the dative case, and with pronouns like o, Turkish inserts a buffer n:

• o → ona
• o
  • -a does not become oa
• it becomes ona

This is a very common question.

• götürmek = to take, to carry something to another place
• getirmek = to bring, to carry something to here

So ona çay götürdüm means I took tea to him/her.

The speaker is imagining the action from their own starting point and moving the tea to the neighbor. That is why götürmek is the natural choice.

Götürdüm breaks down like this:

• götür- = verb stem, take / carry
• -dü- = definite past tense
• -m = I

So:

• götürdüm = I took

The vowel in the past suffix changes by vowel harmony, so you see -dı, -di, -du, -dü in different words.

Because the meaning changes from I to we.

• konuştum = I talked
• konuştuk = we talked

In the sentence, the first action is done by I:

• ona çay götürdüm = I took tea to him/her

Then the second action involves both people:

• ve konuştuk = and we talked

So the subject shifts naturally from I to we. Turkish does not need to say biz (we) because the verb ending -k already shows it.

Because Turkish often leaves subjects and objects unstated when they are clear from context.

Here, once you hear:

• Komşum...
• ona çay götürdüm...

it is very natural to understand that konuştuk means my neighbor and I talked.

Turkish frequently relies on verb endings and context instead of repeating pronouns or nouns.

Not exactly.

Darılmak usually means something like:

• to get offended
• to feel hurt by someone
• to take offense
• sometimes to sulk

It often suggests an emotional reaction to another person’s words or behavior, not just general sadness.

So komşum darılınca is closer to:

• when my neighbor got offended
• when my neighbor became upset with someone

rather than simply when my neighbor felt sad.

The sentence is:

Komşum darılınca ona çay götürdüm ve konuştuk.

A natural breakdown is:

• Komşum darılınca = when my neighbor got offended
• ona çay götürdüm = I took tea to him/her
• ve konuştuk = and we talked

Turkish often puts the verb near the end of each clause, so this structure is very normal.

A very literal order in English would be:

• My neighbor getting offended-when, to him/her tea I took and we talked.

Of course, natural English rearranges this.

Yes, sometimes it can suggest a meaning close to when, once, or even since/as depending on context.

So Komşum darılınca ona çay götürdüm could feel like:

• When my neighbor got upset, I took him/her tea
• or more loosely, Since my neighbor was upset, I took him/her tea

The core idea is that the first situation leads into the second one. In many cases, English may translate it with either a time meaning or a light cause meaning, depending on what sounds most natural.