Breakdown of Bankaya gidince anladım, meğer paramı bir dolandırıcıya kaptırmışım.
bir
a / an
banka
bank
para
money
gitmek
to go
Questions & Answers about Bankaya gidince anladım, meğer paramı bir dolandırıcıya kaptırmışım.
Why do we use meğer here, and why does it pair with the -mış tense?
Meğer (or meğerse) means "it turns out" or "apparently." It is used when you discover that the truth is different from what you originally thought. It pairs beautifully with the -mIş suffix (as in kaptırmışım) because both meğer and -mIş express realizing or discovering something after it has already happened.
If I am talking about myself losing the money, why didn't I use the regular past tense and say kaptırdım?
You use the regular -di past tense for events you were fully aware of at the time. Since you were scammed, you didn't know you were losing the money while it was happening! You only figured it out later at the bank. The -mIş tense is required here to show this sudden realization.
Why did we use kaptırmışım instead of the usual word for "lost" (kaybetmişim)?
Kaybetmek is used for generally losing or misplacing things, like your keys. Kaptırmak comes from kapmak (to snatch or grab) and means "to let someone snatch something from you." It is the perfect verb for losing money to a scammer or thief. Notice that the person taking the money gets the dative ending (bir dolandırıcıya).
Can you remind me how gidince means "when I went"?