Dative and genitive intensifiers (sjálfum, sjálfs)

The Dative Case

Continuing with the intensifying pronoun sjálfur (self/oneself), we now look at its forms in the dative and genitive cases. When you combine sjálfur with pronouns (like mér, þér, sér) to say "myself" or "yourself", it must agree in gender, number, and case with the person it refers to.

Here are the dative forms of sjálfur:

GenderDative SingularDative Plural
Masculinesjálfumsjálfum
Femininesjálfrisjálfum
Neutersjálfusjálfum

Notice that the plural form is sjálfum across all genders.

You will use the dative case when sjálfur follows prepositions that govern the dative, such as á (on/for) and hjá (with/at):

She intends to take responsibility for herself.
Hún ætlar að bera ábyrgð á sjálfri sér.
The responsibility lies with me myself.
Ábyrgðin liggur hjá sjálfum mér.

Dative-Governing Verbs

Many verbs related to personal responsibility, self-control, punishment, and reward govern the dative case in Icelandic. When you do these actions to yourself, both the pronoun and sjálfur take the dative.

to control
stjórna
The teacher controls himself very well.
Kennarinn stjórnar sjálfum sér mjög vel.
Why do you punish yourself so much?
Af hverju refsar þú sjálfum þér svona mikið?
I help him, but I reward myself.
Ég hjálpa honum, en ég umbuna sjálfri mér.

Similarly, trusting someone or having respect for someone also triggers the dative. The phrase bera virðingu fyrir (to have respect for) takes the dative, as does the verb treysta (to trust):

You have no respect for yourselves.
Þið hafið enga virðingu fyrir sjálfum ykkur.
Does she trust herself?
Treystir hún sjálfri sér?

The Genitive Case

Finally, we have the genitive forms. The genitive is used to show possession, but it is also required by certain prepositions and verbs.

GenderGenitive SingularGenitive Plural
Masculinesjálfssjálfra
Femininesjálfrarsjálfra
Neutersjálfssjálfra

Some verbs, like gæta (to take care of / to protect), govern the genitive case. When telling someone to take care of themselves, you use the genitive forms of both the pronoun and the intensifier:

to take care of
gæta
Take care of yourself!
Gættu sjálfs þín!

You also use the genitive with prepositions like til (to) and vegna (because of / for the sake of):

He takes this personally.
Hann tekur þetta til sjálfs sín.
He only does this for his own sake.
Hann gerir þetta bara vegna sjálfs sín.