Nie rozmawiaj z obcym.

Breakdown of Nie rozmawiaj z obcym.

nie
not
z
with
rozmawiać
to talk
obcy
a stranger; foreign

Questions & Answers about Nie rozmawiaj z obcym.

Why is it rozmawiaj and not rozmawiać?

Because rozmawiaj is the imperative form: it means talk! / speak!

  • rozmawiać = to talk / to converse (the dictionary form)
  • rozmawiaj = talk! (command to one person, informal)

With nie, it becomes a negative command:

  • Nie rozmawiaj = Don’t talk

So the sentence is giving an instruction, not just naming the action.

Who is being addressed here? Where is the word for you?

Polish usually does not need to say the subject pronoun if it is clear from the verb form.

In rozmawiaj, the ending already tells you this is a command to one person in the informal singular sense, so an English you is understood automatically.

So:

  • Nie rozmawiaj = Don’t talk / Don’t talk you is not how Polish works
  • The you is built into the verb form
Why is nie written separately?

Because in Polish, nie is normally written as a separate word before verbs.

So:

  • nie rozmawiaj = correct
  • nierozmawiaj = incorrect

This is a very common pattern:

  • Nie rób tego. = Don’t do that.
  • Nie idź tam. = Don’t go there.
Why is it z obcym and not z obcy?

Because the preposition z meaning with requires the instrumental case.

The adjective obcy changes form in the instrumental singular:

  • obcy = basic form
  • obcym = instrumental form

Since rozmawiać z kimś means to talk with someone, Polish uses:

  • z + instrumental

So:

  • z obcym = with a stranger / with a foreign person / with someone unknown
What exactly is obcym here?

Obcym is the adjective obcy used like a noun.

The adjective obcy can mean things like:

  • strange
  • foreign
  • unknown
  • unfamiliar

In this sentence, it means something like a stranger or an unknown person.

Polish often does this: an adjective can stand on its own when the noun is understood.

So z obcym is short for something like:

  • z obcym człowiekiem = with a stranger / with an unknown person
  • possibly z obcym mężczyzną depending on context, though here it is usually more general
Does obcy really mean stranger? I thought it meant foreign or alien.

Yes, that is a very good question. Obcy has a wider meaning than the English word stranger.

Depending on context, obcy can mean:

  • foreign
  • strange
  • not one of us
  • unknown
  • a stranger

In Nie rozmawiaj z obcym, the natural meaning is Don’t talk to strangers or Don’t talk to a stranger.

So the exact English translation depends on context, but in a warning like this, obcy is understood as an unknown person.

Why is it z if English usually says talk to someone, not talk with someone?

Because Polish and English do not always use the same prepositions.

In Polish, the standard pattern is:

English often says:

  • talk to someone
  • talk with someone

But Polish uses z here, not a direct equivalent of English to.

So even if the English meaning shown is Don’t talk to a stranger, the Polish structure is based on with:

  • rozmawiać z kimś
Is this sentence singular or plural? Does it mean Don’t talk to a stranger or Don’t talk to strangers?

Grammatically, it is singular:

  • z obcym = with a stranger / with an unknown person

So word-for-word it is singular.

However, in real usage, especially in warnings, Polish singular can sometimes express a general idea, much like English can say:

  • Don’t talk to a stranger
  • Don’t talk to strangers

Both can fit the general meaning, but the Polish form here is singular.

Is this addressed to a child, a friend, or anyone? Is it formal or informal?

It is informal singular.

That means it is said to one person using the ty form, for example:

  • to a child
  • to a friend
  • to someone you address informally

It is not the formal version.

Possible alternatives:

  • Nie rozmawiajcie z obcymi. = Don’t talk to strangers (informal plural)
  • Proszę nie rozmawiać z obcymi. = Please do not talk to strangers (more formal / polite)
  • Niech pan/pani nie rozmawia z obcymi. = formal singular
Why isn’t it Nie rozmawaj? How is rozmawiaj formed?

The imperative of rozmawiać is formed as rozmawiaj.

This is just the standard imperative pattern for many verbs ending in -ać:

  • czytać → czytaj
  • pytac would actually be pytać → pytaj
  • rozmawiać → rozmawiaj

So rozmawiaj is the correct command form.

The -aj ending is very common in imperatives of this type.

Could I say Nie mów z obcym instead?

Not if you want the same natural meaning.

  • rozmawiać = to have a conversation / to talk
  • mówić = to speak / to say

In Polish, the normal verb for talk with someone is rozmawiać z kimś.

Mówić z kimś exists in some contexts or regional usage, but it is not the best standard choice here.
So:

  • Nie rozmawiaj z obcym. = natural
  • Nie mów z obcym. = not the usual standard way to say this
Would Nie rozmawiaj z nieznajomym also work?

Yes, and many learners notice this.

  • nieznajomy = stranger / unknown person
  • obcy = strange / foreign / unknown / outsider

In many contexts, nieznajomy is a very direct equivalent of stranger.
So:

  • Nie rozmawiaj z nieznajomym. = also a natural sentence

The nuance is that obcy can feel a bit broader, while nieznajomy focuses more specifically on someone you do not know.

In warnings to children, both ideas are understandable, though the exact preferred wording may depend on context.

Does obcym tell us the gender of the stranger?

Formally, obcym is a masculine singular instrumental form, but in a sentence like this it is often understood more generically.

Polish often uses masculine forms in a general sense when the exact person is not specified.

If you specifically wanted to mention a woman, you would normally make that explicit:

  • Nie rozmawiaj z obcą kobietą. = Don’t talk to a strange / unknown woman

But in Nie rozmawiaj z obcym, the idea is usually simply with a stranger, not necessarily with a male stranger only.

Is this a completed action or an ongoing one? Why is rozmawiać used and not a perfective verb?

Rozmawiać is imperfective, and that is normal here.

Negative commands often use the imperfective when you mean:

  • don’t do this in general
  • don’t start doing this
  • don’t be doing this

So Nie rozmawiaj z obcym is a general prohibition:
Don’t talk to a stranger / Don’t talk to strangers.

A perfective partner is less central here because the point is not one completed conversation, but the general action of engaging in conversation.

Can this sentence sound natural on its own, or does it usually need context?

Yes, it can sound natural on its own, especially as a warning or instruction.

For example, a parent might say it to a child, or it might appear in safety advice.

Still, in real modern Polish, you might often also hear a plural generic version:

  • Nie rozmawiaj z obcymi. = Don’t talk to strangers

That version can sound even more like a general rule.
But the singular sentence you were given is still grammatically correct and understandable.

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