Weddings and christenings (mireasa, nașul, botezul)

The bride and groom

Mirele (the groom) declines like fratele: un mire, mirele. Mireasa (the bride) is o mireasă, plural mirese. Together, the couple are mirii. They are people, so as direct objects they take pe and a doubling pronoun, and the noun after pe drops its article.

The groom is waiting for the bride at the church.
Mirele o așteaptă pe mireasă la biserică.
The bride is wearing a white dress.
Mireasa poartă o rochie albă.

The nași

A Romanian church wedding needs nașii: usually an older married couple, nașul and nașa, who stand with the bride and groom. One word covers both roles: the naș who sponsors a wedding and the godfather at a christening — and the wedding nași are often asked to christen the couple's first child too.

Our godparents helped us a lot.
Nașii noștri ne-au ajutat foarte mult.
The godfather holds the baby at the christening.
Nașul îl ține pe bebeluș la botez.

Customs

The bride throws her buchet, and a favorite game at the party is furatul miresei: friends "steal" the bride, and the groom's side has to buy her back.

The bride throws the bouquet.
Mireasa aruncă buchetul.
At the wedding, the friends steal the bride.
La nuntă, prietenii o fură pe mireasă.

Engaged, in love

Logodit (engaged) agrees like any adjective: logodit, logodită, logodiți. Dragostea is love; din dragoste is out of love.

They're engaged, but they aren't married.
Ei sunt logodiți, dar nu sunt căsătoriți.
They got married for love.
S-au căsătorit din dragoste.

Turning one: a împlini

A împlini (an -esc verb) means to complete or fulfill. With years it means to turn: împlinesc treizeci de ani (I'm turning thirty). For your age now you still say am treizeci de ani.

a împlini
euîmplinesc
tuîmplinești
el, eaîmplinește
pastam împlinit
Tomorrow I turn thirty.
Mâine împlinesc treizeci de ani.
The baby has turned one.
Bebelușul a împlinit un an.
I've made my dream come true.
Mi-am împlinit visul.

Falling in love, and wishing the couple well

A se îndrăgosti de someone is to fall in love with them; in the past it keeps its reflexive pronoun: m-am îndrăgostit, ne-am îndrăgostit, s-au îndrăgostit. At a wedding, guests wish the newlyweds casă de piatră!, literally "a house of stone": a home that lasts.

I fell in love with her.
M-am îndrăgostit de ea.
We got married! — Congratulations!
— Ne-am căsătorit! — Casă de piatră!

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