方kata is a suffix that can be attached to a the stem of a verb to turn it into a noun that means the way to do X or how to X.

For example, 食tabeべ方kata means way of eating or how to eat, and 作tsukuり方kata means way of making or how to make.

So to use 方kata, just add it to the verb stem, which the part before ます in the polite form.

Note that where other particles would usually be used with a noun, の is used when making a sentence with 方.

And finally, here is a commonly used expression in Japanese:

The phrase is often used to express resignation or acceptance of a situation that is out of one's control.

Breakdown of tomodachi to depaato ni ikimasu.