Learn Hardcore Turkish: Sen toplantıda aynı şeyi sorup duruyorsun. - You keep asking the same thing in the meeting.

You can drop it. Turkish is pro-drop, so Toplantıda aynı şeyi sorup duruyorsun is perfectly fine. Using Sen adds emphasis or contrast, often with a mildly reproachful tone: it’s you (as opposed to others) who keeps asking.

Is da in toplantıda the same as the separate particle de/da meaning “also/too”?

No. In toplantıda, -da is the locative case suffix meaning “in/at.” The “also/too” particle is written separately (e.g., sen de). Here it’s a bound suffix: toplantı-da.

Why is it -da (not -de) and why not -ta/-te?

Vowel harmony: toplantı has a back vowel (ı), so the locative uses -da (back form), not -de.
Voicing: the stem ends in a vowel, so the suffix consonant stays d (it only becomes t after a voiceless consonant, e.g., park-ta).

What’s going on with aynı şeyi? Why the -i?

Şeyi is in the accusative (-i) because it’s a definite/specific direct object: “the same thing (we both know about).” Without -i (aynı şey) it’s more generic. Both occur, but the accusative stresses a specific, already-known “same thing.”

Could I say aynı soruyu instead of aynı şeyi?

Yes. Aynı soruyu is “the same question” and is often clearer when you really mean a question. Aynı şeyi is broader (“the same thing/topic/point”) and is very common in speech.

What does -ıp durmak add compared to just sormak or soruyorsun?

V-(y)ip durmak marks repeated/ongoing action, often felt as persistent and slightly annoying: “keep V‑ing, V‑ing over and over.” So sorup duruyorsun is stronger than plain soruyorsun.

How is sorup formed?

It’s the converb -(y)ip attached to the verb root:

sor- (ask) + -up (because of back rounded harmony after o) → sorup This “-ip” form links to durmak to make the idiom “keep doing.”

Is durmak literal here (to stand/stop), or auxiliary?

Auxiliary. In V‑(y)ip durmak, durmak loses its literal meaning and signals persistence/continuity of the first verb.

Is the tone annoyed? Is there a neutral alternative?

Yes, sorup duruyorsun often implies mild irritation. Neutral or formal alternatives:

Sormaya devam ediyorsun (you continue to ask; neutral)
Sürekli/Hep soruyorsun (you always/constantly ask; neutral-to-colloquial)

Can I say soruyor duruyorsun instead?

No. You can’t chain two finite verbs like that. The standard pattern is converb + auxiliary: sorup duruyorsun.

What are some other forms with this construction?

Past: sorup durdun / sorup duruyordun
Negative: sorup durmuyorsun
Question: sorup duruyor musun?
Imperative: sorup durma! (Don’t keep asking!)

How does hep/sürekli/durmadan compare to sorup durmak?

Hep/Sürekli soruyorsun: frequent/constant, neutral.
Durmadan soruyorsun: “without stopping,” can imply impatience.
Sorup duruyorsun: repetitive and often mildly annoyed; more idiomatic/emphatic.

Can I say toplantıdayken? What’s the difference from toplantıda?

Yes: Toplantıdayken = “while (you are) in the meeting,” explicitly temporal. Toplantıda is simpler “in/at the meeting” and often enough for the same context.

Does word order matter here?

Basic neutral orders include:

Sen toplantıda aynı şeyi sorup duruyorsun. (subject up front; mild emphasis on “you”)
Toplantıda aynı şeyi sorup duruyorsun. (topic “in the meeting” first)
Aynı şeyi toplantıda sorup duruyorsun. (focus on the object first) Turkish uses word order to manage topic/focus and emphasis rather than grammar.

Does aynı inflect? Why isn’t there a suffix on it?

Aynı is invariable. Case/number markers go on the noun: aynı şey-i, aynı soru-ya, etc. The adjective itself doesn’t change.