Questions & Answers about Jeg stoler på meg selv.
In Norwegian, the verb å stole (to trust) almost always takes the preposition på when it has an object. Think of it as a fixed expression: å stole på noen/noe = to trust someone/something.
- Jeg stoler på deg. – I trust you.
- Kan jeg stole på dette? – Can I trust this?
Without på, stoler doesn’t sound complete when you’re specifying who or what you trust. So Jeg stoler meg selv is wrong; you need på: Jeg stoler på meg selv.
Meg selv literally means “myself”. It’s a combination of:
- meg – me (object form of jeg – I)
- selv – self
You need selv here to make it reflexive in the sense of “myself”:
- Jeg stoler på meg. – grammatically odd/incomplete; native speakers don’t say this.
- Jeg stoler på meg selv. – natural: I trust myself.
So selv is what turns meg into myself, not just me as an object.