Bapa saudara saya tinggal di desa kecil itu.

Literally:

• bapa = father
• saudara = sibling / relative

So bapa saudara is like “father-relative”, historically “father’s sibling” (uncle).

In modern Malay, bapa saudara is a standard, polite term for:

• an uncle, especially on your father’s side
• sometimes used more generally for “uncle” if the side isn’t important

So yes, bapa saudara is a correct way to say “uncle” in Malay, especially in writing and in more formal speech.

In Malay, possessive pronouns usually come after the noun they modify:

• buku saya = my book
• rumah mereka = their house
• kereta kamu = your car

So:

• bapa saudara saya = my uncle

Putting saya before the noun (saya bapa saudara) is wrong in standard Malay.
Saya before a noun is usually “I” as a subject:

• Saya bapa saudara dia. = I am his uncle.

Yes, Malay usually doesn’t mark plural with an ending like -s.

So bapa saudara saya can mean:

• my uncle (one uncle), or
• my uncles (more than one), depending on context.

If you really want to emphasize plural, you can say:

• beberapa bapa saudara saya = some of my uncles
• semua bapa saudara saya = all my uncles

But in normal conversation, context usually makes it clear whether you mean one or more.

Yes. Common alternatives:

• pakcik (also written pak cik)

  • Very common in Malaysia in everyday speech
  • Can mean your actual uncle, or an older man you address politely
  • Example: Pakcik saya tinggal di desa kecil itu.

• ayah saudara

  • Another formal variant, similar to bapa saudara
  • bapa and ayah both mean “father”, with slight style differences (bapa is a bit more formal/official; ayah more everyday/familial).

In informal conversation, people very often say pakcik saya instead of bapa saudara saya.

Tinggal has several related meanings depending on context:

1. to live / to reside / to stay (somewhere)

   • Saya tinggal di Kuala Lumpur. = I live in Kuala Lumpur.
   • This is the meaning in your sentence.

2. to remain / to be left (over)

   • Tinggal dua keping. = Only two pieces are left.

3. to leave (behind) (more in some fixed expressions / contexts)

In your sentence:

• Bapa saudara saya tinggal di desa kecil itu.
• Subject = bapa saudara saya (my uncle)
• Location = di desa kecil itu (in that small village)

So the natural interpretation is “lives / resides” there.

No verb is missing. Malay doesn’t use a separate “to be” (am / is / are) before ordinary verbs.

In English you might say:

• “My uncle lives in that small village.” (simple present)
• or “My uncle is living in that small village.” (present continuous)

In Malay, you just use tinggal:

• Bapa saudara saya tinggal di desa kecil itu.

There is no extra verb like is between the subject and tinggal.

Di and ke are both prepositions, but they express different things:

• di = at / in / on (location, where something is)

  • di rumah = at home
  • di sekolah = at school
  • tinggal di desa kecil itu = lives in that small village

• ke = to / towards (movement to a place)

  • pergi ke rumah = go to the house
  • berpindah ke desa kecil itu = move to that small village

In your sentence, you’re talking about where your uncle lives (location, not movement), so di is correct:

• tinggal di desa kecil itu = lives in that small village

The structure is:

• desa = village
• kecil = small
• itu = that

Order in Malay noun phrases is typically:

1. Noun
2. Adjective(s)
3. Demonstrative (ini / itu)

So:

• desa kecil itu = village small that → that small village

Other examples:

• rumah besar itu = that big house
• buku lama ini = this old book

So kecil (small) and itu (that) naturally come after the noun desa.

Basic meanings:

• ini = this
• itu = that

So:

• desa kecil itu = that small village
• desa kecil ini = this small village

They can also have a function a bit like “the” (marking something as specific/known), especially in context where distance (“this/that”) isn’t important. But they aren’t used before the noun like English “the”:

• Not: itu desa kecil
• Correct: desa kecil itu

So itu in your sentence points to a specific village the speaker and listener both know (or can identify) — conceptually close to “that small village” or “the small village (we’ve been talking about)”.

Yes, there are some nuances:

• desa

  • Often used in more formal or written contexts
  • Can mean “village” or “rural area / countryside”
  • Sounds a bit more literary or administrative.

• kampung

  • Very common in everyday Malaysian Malay
  • Means “village” / “hometown area” / “traditional village”
  • Strong cultural feel: kampung life = rural, traditional life.

In daily conversation, many Malaysians would naturally say:

• Bapa saudara saya tinggal di kampung kecil itu.

But desa kecil itu is perfectly correct and a bit more formal or neutral.

You usually don’t need yang here.

• desa kecil itu is the normal, natural way to say “that small village.”

Yang is typically used:

1. To turn an adjective or phrase into a relative clause:

   • desa yang kecil itu = the village that is small, that particular small one (slightly more contrastive / explanatory)
   • rumah yang besar itu = the house that is big

2. To add more information:

   • desa yang kecil tetapi indah itu = that small but beautiful village

In everyday speech, people nearly always just say desa kecil itu.
Desa yang kecil itu is grammatical but sounds more formal/emphatic, like you are specifically contrasting that village’s smallness with others.