Breakdown of Kurbanın ailesiyle konuşmam.
konuşmak
to speak / to talk
aile
family
ile
with / by / and (linking nouns)
kurban
victim
Questions & Answers about Kurbanın ailesiyle konuşmam.
How does konuşmam mean "I do not talk"? Where is the tense marker?
In the negative aorist (the tense for general habits), the "I" and "We" forms are irregular. Normally, the negative aorist uses a -z- (like konuşmaz for "he/she doesn't talk"). But for "I", that -z- disappears entirely. We just add -mAm to the verb root. So, konuş (talk) + -mam (I do not usually talk) gives us konuşmam.
Why do we use the aorist konuşmam here instead of konuşmuyorum?
The aorist tense expresses general facts, habits, or personal rules. Using konuşmam implies "As a rule, I do not talk to the victim's family" or "I never talk to them." If you used the present continuous konuşmuyorum, it would mean you are simply not talking to them right now.
Why is there a -si on aile (family)?
This is because "the victim's family" is a possessive phrase linking two nouns. The owner (kurban) gets the genitive "of" suffix (-ın, making kurbanın), and the owned thing (aile) must take the 3rd person possessive suffix (-si). Together they make kurbanın ailesi.
How does the word for "with" attach to make ailesiyle?