Social formulas II — blessings and condolences

Formulas that carry culture

The everyday politeness set gave you teşekkürler, buyurun and geçmiş olsun; this lesson adds the formulas Turks reach for at life's bigger moments. Each one is fixed — you do not build these from grammar, you deploy them whole, at the right moment.

wonderful! (protective compliment)
maşallah is said over anything admirable — a new baby, a child's success, glowing health. It is not only praise: tradition holds that open admiration invites the evil eye (*nazar*), and *maşallah* wards it off. Omitting it while admiring someone's baby can genuinely unsettle the grandmother. thank goodness
çok şükür expresses relief and gratitude — *thank goodness*. It answers good news about health, safe arrivals, and troubles survived. my condolences
başın sağ olsun — literally *may your head be alive* — is **the** condolence formula, and it is obligatory: at a death you say it to the bereaved, whatever else you say. happy bayram
iyi bayramlar greets everyone during a religious or national holiday — on visits, in shops, on the phone. enjoy your new one (said for a purchase)
güle güle kullan — *use it laughingly* — congratulates a purchase: a phone, a car, new shoes. Say it whenever someone shows you something newly bought.
formulasay it when...
maşallahadmiring a baby, a success, good health
çok şükürrelief — trouble turned out well
başın sağ olsunsomeone has lost a relative
iyi bayramlarmeeting anyone during bayram
güle güle kullansomeone shows a new purchase

You know güle güle as the goodbye said by the one staying; the same laughingly image returns here — good things should happen with laughter.