Вместо того чтобы спорить, помоги мне.

Breakdown of Вместо того чтобы спорить, помоги мне.

я
I
спорить
to argue
помочь
to help (perfective)
вместо того чтобы
instead of (doing something)

Questions & Answers about Вместо того чтобы спорить, помоги мне.

Why is there no comma before чтобы in Вместо того чтобы?
When a compound conjunction like вместо того чтобы starts a sentence, it typically isn't split by a comma. You only place a comma at the end of the subordinate clause (after спорить). You would only put a comma before чтобы if you wanted to heavily emphasize вместо того.
Could I use a conjugated verb instead of the infinitive спорить here?
No, you must use the infinitive. When the subject of both actions is the same (the person you are speaking to is both the one arguing and the one who should help), вместо того чтобы must be followed by an infinitive.
Why do we use the imperfective verb спорить but the perfective verb помоги?
The imperfective спорить is used because arguing is a continuous process or general behavior being rejected. The perfective imperative помоги is used because you are asking for a specific, result-focused action to happen right now.
If I wanted to use a noun and say 'Instead of an argument', would I still use вместо того чтобы?
No, вместо того чтобы is only used to introduce a verb phrase. To use a noun, you just use the preposition вместо followed by the genitive case: Вместо спора, помоги мне.

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