Negative indirect objects (nu-mi, nu-ți)

Negating Dative Pronouns

When negating a sentence that contains a dative pronoun (îmi, îți, or îi), the negative word nu is placed immediately before the pronoun. Because nu ends in a vowel and the singular dative pronouns begin with one, they naturally contract in everyday speech. The î drops out, and the two words are joined with a hyphen.

Full formContractionMeaning
nu + îminu-minot to me
nu + îținu-ținot to you
nu + îinu-inot to him / not to her

This makes pronunciation smoother and is the standard way to speak and write in Romanian.

Expressing Opinions and Feelings

Many common Romanian verbs that describe personal feelings, reactions, or preferences take an indirect object. For example, verbs like a păsa (to care) and a conveni (to suit) use these contracted forms to politely refuse or express that something doesn't matter to someone.

I don't care about their reaction.
Nu-mi pasă de reacția lor.
He doesn't care about your attitude.
Nu-i pasă de atitudinea ta.
Doesn't her proposal suit you?
Nu-ți convine propunerea ei?

Possession and Lack

You will also use these negative contractions to talk about what people do not have, what does not belong to them (a aparține), or what they are not missing (a lipsi).

This phone doesn't belong to me.
Acest telefon nu-mi aparține.
You are happy, you don't lack anything here.
Ești fericit, nu-ți lipsește nimic aici.

Withholding Information and States of Being

Finally, dative contractions are used for actions directed away from someone, such as hiding something (a ascunde).

She doesn't hide any detail from him.
Ea nu-i ascunde niciun detaliu.

They are also essential for fixed expressions describing personal states of being, like a-i fi foame (to be hungry, literally "to be hunger to him/her").

He isn't hungry, so he eats absolutely nothing.
Nu-i este foame, deci nu mănâncă absolut nimic.

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