Reflexive verbs (me, te, se, nos)

Reflexive Verbs and Daily Routines

In Portuguese, we use reflexive verbs to talk about actions we perform on ourselves. You will use them constantly when talking about your daily routine and personal care. You can spot them in the dictionary because they have the pronoun -se attached to the infinitive.

to get up
levantar-se

To conjugate these verbs, you use a reflexive pronoun that matches the subject of the sentence.

eume (myself)
tute (yourself)
ele / ela / vocêse (himself / herself / yourself)
nósnos (ourselves)
eles / elas / vocêsse (themselves / yourselves)

In standard European Portuguese, these pronouns normally attach to the end of the conjugated verb with a hyphen.

Let's look at levantar-se (to get up). Pay special attention to the nós form: whenever you attach -nos to a verb ending in -s, you must drop the final -s of the verb (so levantamos becomes levantamo-nos).

eulevanto-me
tulevantas-te
ele / ela / vocêlevanta-se
nóslevantamo-nos
eles / elas / vocêslevantam-se
I get up early every day.
Eu levanto-me cedo todos os dias.
My brother gets up at eight o'clock.
O meu irmão levanta-se às oito horas.

Everyday Routine Verbs

Here are several more common reflexive verbs for your morning routine:

  • Vestir-se (to get dressed)
  • Pentear-se (to comb one's hair)
  • Sentar-se (to sit down)
  • Despachar-se (to hurry up)

Notice that pentear-se adds an "i" to its stem in several forms (eu penteio-me).

You get dressed fast.
Tu vestes-te rápido.
I comb my hair in front of the mirror.
Eu penteio-me em frente do espelho.
We sit down on the sofa.
Nós sentamo-nos no sofá.
They hurry up because they are late.
Eles despacham-se porque estão atrasados.

Personal Care Vocabulary

Here are a few useful nouns, plus how to talk about taking care of yourself. Notice that when talking about body parts, Portuguese usually uses the definite article (the face) rather than a possessive pronoun (my face).

the face
a cara
I clean my face with water and a towel.
Eu limpo a cara com água e uma toalha.
I use the shampoo and dry myself with the towel.
Eu uso o champô e seco-me com a toalha.
She sits on the chair and puts on makeup.
Ela senta-se na cadeira e maquilha-se.

Changing Pronoun Placement

While the pronoun usually attaches to the end of the verb, there are two important situations where its position changes.

1. "Magnet" words Certain words, like quando (when) or negative words, act as magnets. When they are in the same clause as the verb, they pull the reflexive pronoun before the verb, without a hyphen.

When he gets up, he looks at the mirror.
Quando ele se levanta, olha para o espelho.

(Note: The magnet only works within its own clause. If the reflexive verb is in a separate main clause, the pronoun stays safely at the end, as in the next example.)

When it is cold, we get dressed quickly.
Quando faz frio, nós vestimo-nos rápido.

2. With Infinitives If the reflexive verb remains in its dictionary (infinitive) form because it follows a helper verb, you typically attach the pronoun to the end of the infinitive.

You must get up early.
Tu deves levantar-te cedo.

However, if there is a preposition like de right before the infinitive, the pronoun often slips between the preposition and the verb.

We have to hurry up today.
Nós temos de nos despachar hoje.

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