Taking offense and feeling up to it (prendersela, sentirsela)

More Pronominal Verbs: "Sentirsela" and "Prendersela"

Pronominal verbs ending in -sela add a native flair to your Italian. Here, we'll focus on two essential verbs: sentirsela (to feel up to) and prendersela (to take offense).

The Verb "Sentirsela"

Like cavarsela, sentirsela combines the root sentire, a reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, ce, ve, se), and the fixed pronoun la.

To conjugate it, adjust the pronoun and conjugate sentire as normal:

SubjectPronouns + Verb
iome la sento
tute la senti
lui/lei/Leise la sente
noice la sentiamo
voive la sentite
lorose la sentono

To specify what you feel up to doing, follow the conjugated verb with di + infinitive.

The captain is injured and does not feel up to playing.
Il capitano è infortunato e non se la sente di giocare.
The coach said that it's necessary to play the final, if you feel up to it.
L'allenatore ha detto che bisogna giocare la finale, se te la senti.

Competitive Sports Vocabulary

We'll practice these verbs in the context of a sports tournament (il torneo), alongside verbs like sconfiggere (to defeat) and pareggiare (to draw/tie).

In this tournament we cannot draw, one must defeat everyone.
In questo torneo non possiamo pareggiare, bisogna sconfiggere tutti.

The Verb "Prendersela"

Prendersela (to take offense or get mad) follows the exact same pronoun pattern, just with the root verb prendere.

If they defeat us in the tournament, I won't take offense.
Se ci sconfiggono nel torneo, non me la prendo.
The fans won't take offense at all if we draw.
I tifosi non se la prendono mica se pareggiamo.
Will the captain take offense if we lose the final?
Il capitano se la prende se perdiamo la finale?

Past Tense and Other Moods

In the passato prossimo, these verbs take the auxiliary essere. Because the fixed pronoun la acts as a direct object, the past participle always ends in -a (sentita, presa).

Before forms of essere starting with a vowel (like è), la drops its vowel to form an apostrophe (e.g., se l'è presa).

The coach took offense because we drew.
L'allenatore se l'è presa perché abbiamo pareggiato.
My brother did not feel up to finishing the tournament.
Mio fratello non se l'è sentita di finire il torneo.

These verbs function smoothly across all other tenses and moods, including the imperfetto and the subjunctive.

I didn't feel up to playing because I was injured, but he took offense.
Non me la sentivo di giocare perché ero infortunato, ma lui se l'è presa.
If the captain felt up to it, we would defeat the other team.
Se il capitano se la sentisse, sconfiggeremmo l'altra squadra.

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