Saying Hello — and Choosing Your Register
Italian greetings come in two registers, and picking the right one matters as much as the words themselves. With friends, family, and children you use tu-register greetings; with strangers, officials, and anyone you address as Lei, stay formal.
Ciao — hello AND goodbye
Ciao works both when you arrive and when you leave — but only informally.
| Hi! This is my sister. | Ciao! Questa è mia sorella. |
| Hi, welcome! | Ciao, benvenuto! |
The formal set
Buongiorno (morning and early afternoon) and buonasera (from late afternoon on) are the safe formal greetings. Buonanotte is different: it is only a parting word, said when someone is heading to bed.
| Good evening, sir. | Buonasera, signore. |
| Good night, grandma. | Buonanotte, nonna. |
Leaving politely
Arrivederci ("until we see each other again") is the standard goodbye that works with everyone.
| Goodbye, madam. | Arrivederci, signora. |
Benvenuto — welcome
Benvenuto agrees like an adjective with the person you welcome: benvenuto to a man, benvenuta to a woman, benvenuti to a group.
| Welcome, madam! | Benvenuta, signora! |
Scusa vs scusi
You already know formal scusi. The informal counterpart is scusa — same apology, tu-register.
| Sorry, I don't have time today. | Scusa, non ho tempo oggi. |
Your Greeting Toolkit
| situation | informal | formal |
|---|---|---|
| hello | ciao | buongiorno / buonasera |
| goodbye | ciao | arrivederci |
| going to bed | buonanotte | buonanotte |
| sorry / excuse me | scusa | scusi |
| welcoming someone | benvenuto / benvenuta | benvenuto / benvenuta |
