Kurteisi — please, sorry, congratulations

Thanking Properly

You know takk. For thanking for something, use takk fyrir + accusative: Takk fyrir matinn — the fixed after-meal thanks every Icelandic household says.

Thanks for the food!
Takk fyrir matinn!

The reply when handing something over is gjörðu svo velhere you are, please — and at the table verði þér að góðuenjoy your meal. Both are fixed formulas.

When something is no trouble at all: ekkert málno problem — or the all-purpose allt í lagiokay, all right.

Is everything okay?
Er allt í lagi?

Apologising

Fyrirgefðu is sorry — an apology, and also how you soften a question to a stranger. Afsakið is its slightly more formal sibling, excuse me. And því miður is unfortunately — the word for delivering bad news politely: Því miður er búðin lokuð.

Sorry, I don't understand.
Fyrirgefðu, ég skil ekki.

The Happy Formulas

Til hamingju is congratulations — with birthdays, til hamingju með afmælið or the very Icelandic til hamingju með daginn. Velkominn welcomes a man, velkomin a woman. Gaman is the noun fun, a joyÞað er gaman (it's fun), and Gaman að hitta þig (nice to meet you). And elskandear, darling — is what Icelanders call the people they love: elskan mín.

Já or Jú?

Icelandic has TWO words for yes. answers an ordinary question. But when the question is NEGATIVE — Aren't you hungry? — and you want to contradict it, the word is :

questionyes-answer
Ert þú svangur?Já.
Ert þú ekki svangur?Jú! (yes I am!)
Aren't you hungry? Yes I am!
Ert þú ekki svangur? Jú!

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