¿Estás enfadado conmigo?

Because enfadado describes a temporary emotional state, not a permanent characteristic.

• estar enfadado = to be angry / upset
• ser enfadado would suggest someone is an angry-type person by nature, which is not what this sentence means.

So ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? means Are you angry with me? in the sense of how someone feels right now.

Enfadado means angry, annoyed, or upset.

In Spain, enfadado is a very common everyday word for being angry. Depending on context, it can range from mildly annoyed to genuinely angry.

Examples:

• Estoy enfadado. = I’m angry / upset.
• Se enfadó conmigo. = He/She got angry with me.

Because the adjective agrees with the person being spoken to.

In ¿Estás enfadado conmigo?, the speaker is talking to one male person, or using the masculine as the default form when gender is unknown.

Agreement:

• to a man: ¿Estás enfadado conmigo?
• to a woman: ¿Estás enfadada conmigo?

So the ending changes to match the gender of the person you are addressing.

Conmigo means with me.

After the preposition con, Spanish uses special forms with mí and ti:

• conmigo = with me
• contigo = with you

So you do not say con mí or con ti in standard Spanish.

Examples:

• Ven conmigo. = Come with me.
• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? = Are you angry with me?

Because Spanish and English often use different prepositions with emotions.

In Spanish, the normal pattern is:

• estar enfadado con alguien = to be angry with someone

So:

• Estoy enfadado con él. = I’m angry with him.
• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? = Are you angry with me?

This is just the standard preposition used with enfadado.

It is perfectly standard Spanish, but enfadado is especially common in Spain.

In much of Latin America, people often use:

• enojado
• sometimes bravo in certain regions

So in Spain:

• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? sounds very natural.

In Latin America, you may more often hear:

• ¿Estás enojado conmigo?

Both are understood, but enfadado strongly feels like Spain usage.

Yes.

It can mean anything from:

• Are you annoyed with me? to
• Are you really angry with me?

The exact force depends on:

• tone of voice
• facial expression
• context

For example:

• after a small misunderstanding, it may mean Are you upset with me?
• after an argument, it may mean Are you angry with me?

A simple approximate pronunciation for an English speaker is:

es-TAS en-fa-DA-do kon-MEE-go

A few helpful points:

• estás has the stress on the second syllable: -tás
• enfadado has the stress on da
• conmigo has the stress on mi
• the d in enfadado is usually softer than an English d, especially between vowels
• the r sound does not appear here, so this sentence is fairly straightforward to pronounce

Spanish uses double question marks:

• ¿ at the beginning
• ? at the end

So direct questions are written like this:

• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo?

This helps the reader know from the start that the sentence is a question.

Yes, but it means something slightly different.

• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? = Are you angry with me?
  This asks about the person’s current state.

• ¿Te has enfadado conmigo? = Have you gotten angry with me? / Did you get angry with me?
  This focuses more on the change or event of becoming angry.

So:

• estar enfadado = to be in an angry state
• enfadarse = to get angry

Yes, but the meaning becomes less specific.

• ¿Estás enfadado? = Are you angry/upset?
• ¿Estás enfadado conmigo? = Are you angry with me?

So conmigo is important if you want to ask whether you are the reason for the other person’s anger.