Questions & Answers about tā tǎoyàn děng.
Why is there a verb 等 after 讨厌? Shouldn’t there be a noun there?
In Mandarin, 讨厌 can take a verb phrase as its object. So 讨厌 + 等 means to hate waiting.
English usually turns the second verb into -ing: hate waiting. Chinese does not need a special -ing form here. The bare verb 等 already carries the idea of waiting as an activity.
So the pattern is:
subject + 讨厌 + verb phrase
For example:
- 我讨厌跑步。 = I hate running.
- 他讨厌等。 = He hates waiting.
What exactly does 等 mean here?
Here, 等 means to wait.
It can be used:
- with an object: 等人 = wait for someone, 等车 = wait for a bus
- without an object: 等 = wait, or waiting in general
In this sentence, it means waiting in general, not waiting for any specific person or thing.
Is 他讨厌等。 natural Mandarin?
It is understandable, but it sounds a little short or clipped by itself.
Native speakers might also say:
- 他讨厌等待。 = He hates waiting.
- 他讨厌等人。 = He hates waiting for people.
- 他不喜欢等。 = He doesn’t like waiting.
So 他讨厌等。 is grammatically fine for a simple learning example, but in everyday speech, a slightly fuller version is often more natural.
Why is there no object after 等? Wait for what?
Chinese often leaves out the object when it is general, obvious, or unimportant.
So 等 here does not mean wait for something specific. It means the act of waiting itself.
This is similar to English:
- He hates waiting.
You do not have to say exactly what he is waiting for unless it matters.
What is the grammar pattern of this sentence?
Is 讨厌 a verb or an adjective here?
Here, 讨厌 is a verb meaning to hate or to dislike strongly.
But 讨厌 can also be used as an adjective in other contexts, where it means annoying or hateful.
Compare:
- 我讨厌他。 = I hate him. → 讨厌 is a verb
- 这个人很讨厌。 = This person is annoying. → 讨厌 is adjective-like
In 他讨厌等。, it is clearly a verb because it is followed by 等, the thing/action he hates.
What is the difference between 讨厌 and 不喜欢?
讨厌 is usually stronger than 不喜欢.
- 不喜欢 = do not like
- 讨厌 = dislike a lot, hate, can’t stand
So:
- 他不喜欢等。 = He doesn’t like waiting.
- 他讨厌等。 = He hates waiting.
If you want a milder, more everyday feeling, 不喜欢 is often safer. 讨厌 sounds stronger and more emotional.
Does 他 only mean he?
In writing, 他 normally means he.
But in spoken Mandarin, 他, 她, and 它 are all pronounced tā. So when you only hear the sentence, you cannot tell from pronunciation alone whether it means:
- he
- she
- or sometimes it
In this written sentence, though, 他 specifically means he.
Why isn’t 等待 used instead of 等?
Both can mean to wait, but they feel a little different.
- 等 is the common everyday verb
- 等待 is a bit more formal or literary
So:
- 他讨厌等。 sounds shorter and more conversational
- 他讨厌等待。 sounds a little more polished or formal
In many simple sentences, either can work. Learners should know that 等 is very common in daily speech.
How is 讨厌 pronounced? Are there any tone changes?
The pronunciation is:
- 他 = tā (first tone)
- 讨厌 = tǎoyàn (third tone + fourth tone)
- 等 = děng (third tone)
There is no special tone change in 讨厌 itself.
In natural speech, the third tone in 讨 is often pronounced as a low tone rather than a full dipping tone because it comes before a fourth tone. That is normal connected speech pronunciation.
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