The lines परहित सरिस धरम नहिं भाई / परपीड़ा सम नहिं अधमाई are routinely quoted, explained, and memorized in Hindi settings. They come from Tulsidas's public-domain Ramcharitmanas, in the Uttarakāṇḍa, but their language is Avadhi—not an early defective version of Standard Hindi. A good Hindi reader recognizes the couplet while also recognizing its historical grammar (literary; archaic).
The wording below follows a widespread Ramcharitmanas reading. Editions differ in word division (परहित / पर हित, परपीड़ा / पर पीड़ा), in नहिं / नहि, and sometimes normalize धरम to Sanskritic धर्म. Word division is editorial because older manuscript traditions did not impose one modern segmentation. This page preserves धरम and नहिं, since replacing them would erase metrical and historical evidence.
The complete couplet
परहित सरिस धरम नहिं भाई। परपीड़ा सम नहिं अधमाई॥
parhit saris dharam nahiṃ bhāī. parpīṛā sam nahiṃ adhamāī.
Brother, there is no duty equal to benefiting others, and no baseness equal to causing others pain. (literary Avadhi)
The English translation supplies “there is,” because neither half has an overt copula. It also turns the compact compounds परहित and परपीड़ा into verbal ideas. A word-for-word SVO parse will fail: these lines are paired nominal comparisons, not sentences in which duty and baseness perform actions.
First line: measuring धर्म against परहित
परहित सरिस धरम नहिं भाई।
parhit saris dharam nahiṃ bhāī.
Brother, no duty equals service to others. (literary; archaic)
The core relation is [परहित सरिस] [धरम] [नहिं]: “a duty equal to others' welfare—there is not.” The clause has no expressed है. Copula omission is licensed by the poetic idiom and meter (literary; archaic); learners should not conclude that modern Hindi simply drops है in every negative nominal sentence.
परहित is a compact compound: पर “other” + हित “welfare, good.” In this context it denotes acting for others' good. सरिस means “like, equal to” (literary; archaic). Modern Standard Hindi normally uses जैसा for similarity or a से बढ़कर…नहीं frame for a superlative judgment.
For the productive modern comparison patterns, see comparison with से.
दूसरों की भलाई जैसा कोई धर्म नहीं है।
dūsroṃ kī bhalāī jaisā koī dharm nahīṃ hai.
There is no duty like doing good for others. (neutral modern Hindi)
Here जैसा agrees in the masculine singular with धर्म. The negative existential requires कोई…नहीं है, making explicit what the couplet leaves to comparison and negation. The modern sentence is not a correction of the older one; it belongs to a different grammar and register.
धरम reflects a vernacular historical shape. Present-day careful Standard Hindi writes and normally pronounces धर्म dharm. Speakers may still say धरम colloquially or for devotional/literary resonance, but it should be labeled (regional/literary; archaic in this quotation) rather than presented as the formal modern norm.
परहित से बढ़कर कोई धर्म नहीं है।
parhit se baṛhkar koī dharm nahīṃ hai.
No duty is greater than benefiting others. (formal modern prose)
This modern formulation uses comparison standard से plus बढ़कर. It captures the evaluative force of सरिस…नहिं, though it changes literal “none equal to” into idiomatic “none greater than.”
भाई: addressee, not argument
भाई, यह बात याद रखना।
bhāī, yah bāt yād rakhnā.
Brother/my friend, remember this. (informal or rhetorical address, depending context)
Final भाई is a vocative. It addresses the listener and is not possessed by धरम, compared with परहित, or governed by a verb. In devotional narration it broadens the maxim into direct counsel. A literal brother can sound narrowly familial in English, whereas the Hindi form can address a companion, listener, or imagined audience.
In contemporary speech, भाई is often (informal) and may signal friendliness, impatience, or male peer address. In this couplet it is (literary; rhetorical). Register comes from the whole utterance, not from a one-word dictionary equivalent.
Second line: exact parallel, moral reversal
परपीड़ा सम नहिं अधमाई॥
parpīṛā sam nahiṃ adhamāī.
There is no baseness equal to causing others pain. (literary; archaic)
The second half mirrors the first:
| First line | Second line | Function |
|---|---|---|
| परहित | परपीड़ा | good done to others versus pain inflicted on others |
| सरिस | सम | two literary comparison words: “equal to” |
| धरम | अधमाई | highest moral duty versus baseness |
| नहिं | नहिं | repeated categorical negation |
परपीड़ा is पर “other” + पीड़ा “pain.” The compound is grammatically a noun, but context allows a richer interpretation: not merely “another person's pain,” but causing or taking part in others' suffering. The verse does not encode an explicit agent. Its generality makes every listener potentially responsible.
सम is a Sanskrit-derived indeclinable comparison word (formal/literary). It remains recognizable in formal compounds and quotations, but के समान or जैसा is more productive in ordinary prose.
दूसरों को पीड़ा देने जैसी कोई नीचता नहीं है।
dūsroṃ ko pīṛā dene jaisī koī nīctā nahīṃ hai.
There is no baseness like causing pain to others. (neutral-formal modern prose)
The oblique infinitive देने plus जैसी expands the compound into an event. Feminine जैसी agrees with नीचता. This explicit syntax helps learners, but it loses the poem's severe collision of the compact nouns परपीड़ा and अधमाई.
नहिं and अधमाई
यह उचित नहीं है।
yah ucit nahīṃ hai.
This is not appropriate. (neutral modern Hindi)
Modern neutral negation is नहीं. The form नहिं in the couplet is (literary; archaic/regional) and should be read as historical evidence, not normalized in speech practice. Its position before the final predicate noun also participates in the chiasmic feel: the first line ends धरम नहिं भाई, while the second moves नहिं before अधमाई.
अधमाई is an abstract noun built on अधम “base, morally low,” with -आई. Its meaning is “baseness, vileness” (literary/formal). Modern speakers are more likely to choose नीचता, बुराई, or a full predicate such as इससे बुरा कुछ नहीं. There is no need to pretend that अधमाई is an everyday word: understanding it is more useful than forcing it into casual conversation.
दूसरे को जान-बूझकर दुख देना बहुत बड़ी बुराई है।
dūsre ko jān-būjhkar dukh denā bahut baṛī burāī hai.
Deliberately hurting another person is a very serious wrong. (neutral modern prose)
This version makes the act an infinitival subject दुख देना and supplies agency through जान-बूझकर. Tulsidas's compact compound remains broader and more aphoristic.
Ten instructive forms
| Form | Grammar | Effect and register |
|---|---|---|
| परहित | compound noun | compresses an action and its beneficiary; literary/formal |
| सरिस | comparison marker | “equal/similar to”; literary, archaic |
| धरम | vernacular historical form of धर्म | fits meter and Avadhi diction; literary, archaic |
| नहिं | historical negative | categorical denial; literary, archaic |
| [है] | omitted copula | metrical compression; do not generalize to all modern negatives |
| भाई | sentence-final vocative | turns doctrine into direct counsel; literary/rhetorical |
| परपीड़ा | compound noun | leaves agent implicit and maxim universal; literary/formal |
| सम | indeclinable comparison word | balances सरिस; formal/literary |
| अधम + आई | adjective-derived abstract noun | names moral baseness; literary/formal |
| A…नहिं / B…नहिं | parallel negative clauses | makes good and harm memorable opposites |
Common Mistakes
Doubling comparison marking
❌ तुम्हारे जैसा से कोई दोस्त नहीं है।
Incorrect — do not combine जैसा and comparative से in one frame.
✅ आज कोई मित्र कहेगा: ‘तुम्हारे जैसा कोई दोस्त नहीं है।’
āj koī mitr kahegā: ‘tumhāre jaisā koī dost nahīṃ hai.’
Today a friend would say: ‘There is no friend like you.’ (neutral modern Hindi)
Reading भाई as the subject
❌ भाई परहित के समान धर्म है।
Misparse — भाई is the person addressed, not the subject of the comparison.
✅ भाई, परहित से बढ़कर कोई धर्म नहीं है।
bhāī, parhit se baṛhkar koī dharm nahīṃ hai.
Brother/my friend, no duty is greater than benefiting others. (rhetorical modern paraphrase)
Copying copula omission into neutral negative prose
❌ यह कोई बुराई नहीं।
Possible as clipped speech or a headline-like fragment, but incomplete as the intended neutral full sentence.
✅ यह कोई बुराई नहीं है।
yah koī burāī nahīṃ hai.
This is not a bad thing. (neutral full sentence)
Treating परपीड़ा as an SVO clause
❌ पर ने पीड़ा सम किया।
Incorrect — परपीड़ा is a compound noun, not ‘other did pain.’
✅ परपीड़ा का अर्थ है दूसरों को पीड़ा देना।
parpīṛā kā arth hai dūsroṃ ko pīṛā denā.
Parpīṛā means causing pain to others. (formal explanation)
Key Takeaways
- The quoted language is Avadhi received in Hindi, not conversational Standard Hindi.
- सरिस and सम mark equality; नहिं supplies historical negation.
- Final भाई addresses the hearer and is not an argument of the comparison.
- Parallel compounds and omitted copulas make moral opposites sound like a single maxim.
From poetic order to neutral prose
तुलसीदास श्रोता को समझाते हैं कि दूसरों का हित करने से बड़ा कोई धर्म नहीं है और दूसरों को पीड़ा देने से बड़ी कोई बुराई नहीं है।
tulsīdās śrotā ko samjhāte haiṃ ki dūsroṃ kā hit karne se baṛā koī dharm nahīṃ hai aur dūsroṃ ko pīṛā dene se baṛī koī burāī nahīṃ hai.
Tulsidas explains to the listener that no duty is greater than promoting others' welfare, and no wrong is greater than causing others pain. (neutral formal prose)
The paraphrase restores author, addressee, reporting verb, copulas, infinitives, and two से बड़ा/बड़ी comparisons. The original does the opposite: it removes agents and finite verbs, balances four abstract nouns, and repeats नहिं. That impersonal symmetry makes the claim sound less like one person's opinion and more like a maxim the audience is asked to carry away.
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