Polite past (quería…, venía a…)

The imperfect that softens

In shops, bars and offices in Spain you very often hear quería where you might expect quiero. It is not about the past: the imperfect takes the edge off a request, like English I'd like or I was wondering.

Good morning, I'd like a kilo of tomatoes.
Buenos días, quería un kilo de tomates.
I'd like a room for two nights.
Quería una habitación para dos noches.

Quería + infinitive

Add an infinitive to ask to do something: a question, a favor, a booking.

I wanted to ask you something. (formal)
Quería preguntarle una cosa.
Excuse me, I'd like to speak to the director.
Perdone, quería hablar con el director.

Why you have come: venía a…

At a counter or a front door, venía a + infinitive says what brings you there: I've come to…

I've come to see the flat.
Venía a ver el piso.
I've come to return this shirt.
Venía a devolver esta camisa.

Behind the counter

Shop assistants soften desear (to wish) the same way, in the usted form: ¿Qué deseaba? is What would you like?

Good morning, what would you like?
Buenos días, ¿qué deseaba?

How polite?

formtone
quierodirect; fine with people you know
queríapolite, the everyday choice in shops and offices
querría / quisieramore formal
I would like to speak with you for a moment.
Querría hablar con usted un momento.

Context tells you which quería you hear: Quería ir, pero no pude is a real past.

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