Fights, apologies and true friends (la pelea, la disculpa)

Fights and apologies

wordmeaning
pelearto fight
la peleathe fight
pedir disculpasto apologize
admitirto admit, to own up to
jamásnever (stronger than nunca)

La pelea is the noun of pelear: a fight with fists, or a loud row with words. A calmer argument is usually una discusión.

Yesterday I had a fight with my brother.
Ayer tuve una pelea con mi hermano.

One common way to apologize is pedir disculpas, with the noun in the plural (pedir perdón is just as common). The person you apologize to takes a, and usually le as well:

Yesterday I apologized to my girlfriend.
Ayer le pedí disculpas a mi novia.
My apologies, it's my fault.
Mis disculpas, es culpa mía.

Never ever: jamás

Jamás means never, like nunca, but it sounds stronger. It goes before the verb, or after it with no in front:

I've never ever had a fight with her.
Jamás he tenido una pelea con ella.
I'm never going to forgive you.
No te voy a perdonar jamás.

As with nunca, Spain usually uses the present perfect (he tenido) for your life up to now.

Friends, colleagues and couples

El colega is a colleague at work, but among friends it usually just means a mate. A woman is la colega.

Tomorrow I'm going to the cinema with some mates.
Mañana voy al cine con unos colegas.

El matrimonio is a marriage, and also a married couple:

An elderly married couple lives in my building.
En mi edificio vive un matrimonio mayor.

Before a noun, verdadero means real or true: un verdadero amigo. Alegrar is to make someone happy, and the happy person is me, te, le…

Your call has brightened my day.
Tu llamada me ha alegrado el día.

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