Family and partners (el suegro, casarse)

Family by marriage

When you marry, you gain los suegros (parents-in-law) and los cuñados (brothers- and sisters-in-law). The feminine forms are regular: la suegra, la cuñada.

manwoman
parent-in-lawel suegrola suegra
sibling-in-lawel cuñadola cuñada
parent (what you call them)el papála mamá
My father-in-law is very nice.
Mi suegro es muy simpático.
My sister-in-law is my husband's sister.
Mi cuñada es la hermana de mi marido.

Mamá and papá are what you call your parents. In Spain they work like names, with no article and no mi:

Love, kisses and hugs

Te quiero (I love you) is said to a partner, but also to your parents, children and close friends. Kisses and hugs are given, so they take an indirect object pronoun: dar un beso, dar un abrazo.

I love you very much, Mom.
Te quiero mucho, mamá.
Mom gives me a kiss.
Mamá me da un beso.
I give my father-in-law a hug.
Le doy un abrazo a mi suegro.

You get married to someone with casarse con — never casarse a. And you miss someone with echar de menos + personal a:

My cousin is marrying a Japanese girl.
Mi primo se casa con una chica japonesa.

Liking people: caer bien

To say you like a person, Spanish usually says that the person cae bien to you. It is built exactly like gustar: the person you like is the subject, and you are the indirect object.

SpanishEnglish
me cae bienI like him / her
te cae bienyou like him / her
le cae bienhe / she likes him / her
me caen bienI like them
I really like my brother-in-law.
Mi cuñado me cae muy bien.
I like my brothers-in-law.
Mis cuñados me caen bien.
My mother really likes my girlfriend.
A mi madre le cae muy bien mi novia.

The opposite is caer mal. Saying me gusta about a person often means you find them attractive.

y becomes e, o becomes u

Before a word that starts with the sound i (spelled i- or hi-), y becomes e. Before the sound o (o- or ho-), o becomes u. It only avoids two identical sounds in a row.

My mother-in-law is nice and intelligent.
Mi suegra es simpática e inteligente.
I speak Spanish and English.
Hablo español e inglés.
I have seven or eight cousins.
Tengo siete u ocho primos.
Do you prefer this present or another one?
¿Prefieres este regalo u otro?

Y stays before hie-, because that sounds like ye: agua y hielo.

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