Stressed dative pronouns (mie, ție, lui)

Conjugation 4 Verbs Ending in -î

Some Conjugation 4 verbs end in -î instead of -i. To form the past participle for these verbs, you simply drop the -î and add -ât.

to decide
hotărî

For example, a hotărî (to decide) becomes hotărât, a coborî (to go down) becomes coborât, and a urî (to hate) becomes urât.

We decided and went down to the restaurant.
Am hotărât și am coborât la restaurant.

Stressed Dative Pronouns

When a waiter mixes up your table's order, you need to be very clear about exactly who gets which dish. To add strong emphasis, Romanian uses stressed (or full) dative pronouns.

PersonStressed PronounMeaning
1st Singularmieto ME
2nd Singularțieto YOU
3rd Singularlui / eito HIM / to HER
1st Pluralnouăto US
2nd Pluralvouăto YOU (all)
3rd Plurallorto THEM

These stressed pronouns do not replace the unstressed pronouns (like îmi, îți, le) that you already know. Instead, they are used alongside them in the same sentence. This "doubling" clarifies and emphasizes the recipient.

Emphasizing "To Me" and "To You"

To emphasize that something is brought to me or you, pair mie with îmi (or mi-), and ție with îți (or ți-). The stressed pronoun usually comes after the verb, but it can also be placed at the beginning of the phrase for even stronger contrast.

The waiter mixed up the order and brought the pizza to me.
Chelnerul a încurcat comanda și mi-a adus mie pizza.
Is he offering the spicy sour soup to you?
Îți oferă ție ciorba picantă?
He brings the water to me, and he offers the beer to you.
Mie îmi aduce apa, iar ție îți oferă berea.

Emphasizing "To Him" and "To Her"

For the third person singular, pair lui (to him) or ei (to her) with the unstressed pronoun îi (or i-).

No, he is offering the sauce to him.
Nu, îi oferă lui sosul.
He wants the pizza, and I am leaving the tip to her!
El vrea pizza, iar eu îi las ei bacșișul!

Emphasizing Plural Recipients

To emphasize plural recipients, use vouă for "to you all" (paired with vă / v-) and lor for "to them" (paired with le).

Have you guys decided? I brought the drink to you.
Ați hotărât? V-am adus vouă băutura.
They hated the soup, so I am not offering the spicy sauce to them.
Au urât supa, așa că nu le ofer lor sosul picant.

Contrasting and Clarifying

You will frequently see these stressed pronouns used when contrasting two different recipients to clear up confusion.

I decided to offer the pizza to you, not to them.
Am hotărât să îți ofer pizza ție, nu lor.
The waiter mixed up the order, but we decided to leave the tip to him.
Chelnerul a încurcat comanda, dar am hotărât să îi lăsăm bacșișul lui.

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