The present subjunctive for weak verbs

When dining at a formal restaurant, expressing subjective recommendations, strict requirements, or hopes requires a special verb mood: the present subjunctive (viðtengingarháttur nútíðar). In English, this often looks like the base form of the verb ("I ask that he pour the wine" rather than "pours").

Forming the Present Subjunctive

For weak verbs (Group 1 like nota and Group 2 like hella), forming the present subjunctive is straightforward. The singular endings are always -i, -ir, -i, and the plural endings are -um, -ið, -i.

Pronounnota (Group 1)hella (Group 2)
égnotihelli
þúnotirhellir
hann/hún/þaðnotihelli
viðnotumhellum
þiðnotiðhellið
þeir/þær/þaunotihelli

Notice how the subjunctive endings overwrite the usual present tense vowels. For example, hann notar (Group 1) becomes hann noti, and þeir hella (Group 2) becomes þeir helli.

Requirements and Rules

Phrases that set expectations, like krefjast þess að (to require that) or það er mikilvægt að (it is important that), trigger the subjunctive in the following clause.

Good table manners require that you use the fork.
Góðir borðsiðir krefjast þess að þú notir gaffalinn.
It is important that one does not slurp the soup and uses the napkin.
Það er mikilvægt að maður sötri ekki súpuna og noti munnþurrkuna.
Politeness dictates that you do not put your elbow on the table.
Kurteisin krefst þess að þú setjir ekki albogann á borðið.

Expressing Hopes

The present subjunctive is also used for hopes about the present or future, typically after vona að (to hope that).

I hope that he does not smack his lips.
Ég vona að hann kjamsi ekki.
The waiter hopes that the guest pours the wine himself.
Þjónninn vonar að gesturinn helli víninu sjálfur.