Questions & Answers about Vrei apă sau lapte?
In Romanian, the verb ending already shows the subject (you). Subject pronouns like tu are dropped unless you want to add emphasis:
• Vrei apă? = “Do you want water?” (neutral)
• Tu vrei apă? = “You want water?” (with emphasis on “you”)
When offering or requesting something uncountable (like water), Romanian often omits the article.
• Vrei apă sau lapte? = “Do you want (some) water or (some) milk?”
If you mean “a glass of water,” you’d say o apă or specify un pahar de apă.
Both sau and ori can mean “or,” but:
• sau is the everyday conjunction for offering choices.
• ori is more formal or poetic and can also appear in fixed expressions (e.g., ori… ori… “either… or…”).
Use the polite 2nd person plural or a more formal verb:
• Vreți apă sau lapte? (polite “Do you want…?”)
• Doriți apă sau lapte? (slightly more formal)
You can also add vă rog at the end to soften it: Vreți apă sau lapte, vă rog?