אני אוהבת ענבים, אבל היום בא לי יותר תותים קרים.

Because the speaker is feminine singular.

With אני (I), Hebrew does not show gender in the pronoun itself, so the verb/adjective form tells you whether the speaker is male or female.

• אני אוהבת = I (female) like/love
• אני אוהב = I (male) like/love

So a man would normally say:

• אני אוהב ענבים...

In modern Hebrew, the present tense form of many verbs looks like a participle, but it functions as the normal present tense.

So:

• אני אוהבת = I like / I love
• את אוהבת = you (feminine) like
• היא אוהבת = she likes

Hebrew does not need a separate word like English am here. So אני אוהבת naturally means I like or I love, depending on context.

בא לי is a very common colloquial expression meaning:

• I feel like...
• I’m in the mood for...
• I kind of want...

Literally, it comes from בא = comes, so it is something like it comes to me, but that literal meaning is not how you should understand it in normal conversation.

Examples:

• בא לי קפה = I feel like coffee
• בא לי לישון = I feel like sleeping
• בא לי יותר תותים קרים = I feel more like cold strawberries

It is informal and extremely common in speech.

Both can work, but they are not exactly the same.

• אני רוצה = I want
• בא לי = I feel like / I’m in the mood for

So בא לי sounds softer, more casual, and more about current craving or mood.

Compare:

• אני רוצה תותים = I want strawberries
• בא לי תותים = I feel like strawberries

In your sentence, בא לי fits well because the speaker is contrasting a general preference with what they feel like today.

אבל means but, and היום means today.

So:

• אני אוהבת ענבים = I like grapes
• אבל היום... = but today...

This creates a contrast:

• In general I like grapes,
• but today I feel more like cold strawberries.

Putting היום right after אבל emphasizes that this is a temporary preference for today.

יותר usually means more, but in sentences like this it often means something like:

• more
• rather
• more than that
• instead, more so

So בא לי יותר תותים קרים means:

• I feel more like cold strawberries
• I’d rather have cold strawberries
• Cold strawberries sound better to me today

The comparison is understood from context: grapes were just mentioned, so יותר means more than grapes / rather than grapes.

In Hebrew, adjectives usually come after the noun.

So:

• תותים קרים = cold strawberries
• ענבים מתוקים = sweet grapes
• ילד קטן = small boy

Putting the adjective before the noun is generally not the normal pattern in everyday Hebrew.

Because it has to agree with תותים.

In Hebrew, adjectives agree with the noun in:

• gender
• number

תות is a masculine noun, and תותים is plural masculine, so the adjective must also be plural masculine:

• singular masculine: תות קר = a cold strawberry
• singular feminine: תות קרה would only work if the noun were feminine, but תות is not
• plural masculine: תותים קרים

The same agreement rule applies throughout Hebrew.

Because in this sentence the speaker is talking about those fruits in a general or food sense:

• ענבים = grapes
• תותים = strawberries

That is very natural, just like English often uses the plural for foods:

• I like grapes
• I want strawberries

The singular forms are:

• ענב = a grape
• תות = a strawberry

Because the sentence is talking about grapes and strawberries in general, not specific ones.

So:

• ענבים = grapes
• התותים = the strawberries
• תותים = strawberries

If you said התותים הקרים, that would mean the cold strawberries, referring to specific strawberries.

Here, the meaning is more general: the speaker feels like some cold strawberries, not necessarily a particular set already known to both speakers.

It could, but it would not mean exactly the same thing.

• אני רוצה יותר תותים קרים usually sounds like I want more cold strawberries
• That can suggest quantity: more strawberries than before

But in your sentence, בא לי יותר תותים קרים is about preference, not quantity. It means I feel more like cold strawberries.

So בא לי is the better choice for this nuance.

Yes, especially in spoken Hebrew.

It sounds conversational and natural because of:

• אבל היום = a natural contrast
• בא לי = very common spoken expression
• יותר = natural way to say rather / more
• simple food nouns in the plural = very normal

A native speaker might say this in everyday conversation when talking about what fruit they feel like eating.