Unfulfilled wishes (nur / doch)

Have you ever bought something and immediately regretted it? To express an unfulfilled wish or regret ("If only I had..."), German uses Konjunktiv II combined with specific particles.

Dropping "Wenn" (Verb-First Wishes)

A common way to express regret is to start the sentence directly with the conjugated Konjunktiv II verb (like hätte or wäre).

Because a verb-first sentence normally creates a yes/no question, you add nur, doch, or doch nur after the subject to turn it into an exclamation of "If only...!" For past regrets, the past participle goes at the very end.

If only I had bought the original at auction!
Hätte ich das Original doch nur ersteigert!

Wishes Starting with "Wenn"

You can also start these wishes with wenn (if). As a subordinating conjunction, wenn moves the conjugated verb to the end of the clause. The particles nur or doch sit in the middle of the sentence.

If only the other buyer had not outbid me!
Wenn der andere Käufer mich nur nicht überboten hätte!

Present-Tense Wishes

To wish for your current reality to be different, use the present-tense Konjunktiv II (like wäre or hätte) without a past participle.

If only the forgery were not worthless!
Wäre die Fälschung doch nur nicht wertlos!

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