Verbs that change meaning when reflexive

Adding a reflexive pronoun (like me, te, or se) to a verb usually indicates doing an action to yourself. However, for some verbs, adding a reflexive pronoun completely changes the meaning.

Before we look at these changing verbs, here are some essential terms for surviving in the wild:

It is a very harsh ordeal.
C'est une épreuve très rude.
They had prepared the bivouac well.
Ils avaient bien préparé le bivouac.
You cut the rope with the pocketknife.
Tu as coupé la corde avec le canif.
This dry bark is useful for the fire.
Cette écorce sèche est utile pour le feu.

Using and Doing Without

The verb servir normally means "to serve." But as the pronominal se servir de, it means "to use."

I have often used this pocketknife.
Je me suis souvent servi de ce canif.

Similarly, passer means "to pass." However, se passer de shifts entirely to "to do without" something.

We cannot do without water.
Nous ne pouvons pas nous passer d'eau.
He had done without his sleeping bag.
Il s'était passé de son sac de couchage.

Beginning an Action

The verb mettre means "to put." As se mettre à, followed by an infinitive, it means "to begin" or "to start."

Suddenly, it began to rain.
Soudain, il s'est mis à pleuvoir.
The participants quickly began to walk.
Les participants se sont vite mis à marcher.

Idioms with y and en

Some reflexive verbs lock in the pronouns y or en to create completely new expressions. These pronouns stay right before the verb, immediately following the reflexive pronoun (e.g., m'y, s'en).

The verb prendre means "to take," but s'y prendre means "to go about something" or "to manage."

I did not know how to go about it.
Je ne savais pas comment m'y prendre.
She manages the fire very well.
Elle s'y prend très bien avec le feu.

Finally, tirer means "to pull," but s'en tirer means "to pull through" or "to survive."

They pulled through well.
Ils s'en sont bien tirés.
I hope that we are going to pull through.
J'espère que nous allons nous en tirer.

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