Reflexive verbs and pronouns (zich, me, je)

What is a Reflexive Verb?

Reflexive verbs are verbs where the subject and the receiver of the action are the same person. In English, we express this with words like myself or yourself (e.g., "I wash myself"). In Dutch, this structure is very common, especially for daily routines and self-care.

In the dictionary, these verbs are listed with the pronoun zich (oneself), such as zich wassen (to wash oneself) or zich voelen (to feel).

Reflexive Pronouns

When you conjugate a reflexive verb, you must use a reflexive pronoun that matches the subject. The reflexive pronoun typically comes immediately after the conjugated verb.

SubjectReflexive Pronoun
ikme
jijje
hij / zij / hetzich
u (formal)zich
wijons
jullieje
zij (plural)zich

Using "me" and "je"

For ik (I) and jij (you), the reflexive pronouns are me and je.

I wash myself in the morning.
Ik was me in de ochtend.
Do you feel tired?
Voel jij je moe?

Using "zich"

For the third-person singular (hij, zij, het), the third-person plural (zij), and the formal "you" (u), the reflexive pronoun is always zich.

The man shaves by the mirror.
De man scheert zich bij de spiegel.
You (formal) dry yourself.
U droogt zich af.
They wash themselves in the hotel.
Zij wassen zich in het hotel.

Using "ons"

When the subject is wij (we), the reflexive pronoun is ons.

We hurry to the station.
Wij haasten ons naar het station.

Reflexive and Separable Verbs

Many common reflexive verbs are also separable, like zich afdrogen (to dry oneself) and zich aankleden (to get dressed).

When using a separable reflexive verb, the reflexive pronoun directly follows the conjugated verb, and the separable prefix goes to the end of the sentence.

I get dressed quickly.
Ik kleed me snel aan.
I dry myself with the towel.
Ik droog me af met de handdoek.