Liking, bearing and pretending (holde af, holde ud, lade som om)

Verbs in more than one word

Danish builds many everyday verbs from a verb plus one or two small words. The small word changes the meaning completely, and in speech it carries the stress: holde AF, holde UD, holde OP med. Learn each one as a unit.

DanishEnglishcompare
holde afto be fond ofkunne lide: to like
holde udto bear, to standtåle: to tolerate
holde op medto stop doinglade være med: to not do, to leave alone
lade som omto pretend
sætte pris påto appreciate
ombestemme sigto change your mind
She is pretending to be asleep.
Hun lader som om hun sover.

Lade som om is followed by a whole clause with its own subject and verb.

I really appreciate your help.
Jeg sætter stor pris på din hjælp.

Stor in the middle makes sætte pris på stronger.

Holde af and holde ud

I am very fond of you.
Jeg holder meget af dig.

Holde af is warmer than kunne lide, and you usually say it about people and animals. Meget goes between holde and af.

How can you stand him?
Hvordan kan du holde ham ud?

Holde ud mostly comes with a negation or in a question. What you cannot bear goes between holde and ud.

The noise from the neighbor is unbearable.
Støjen fra naboen er ikke til at holde ud.

Ikke til at holde ud is a fixed way to say "unbearable".

Stopping and changing your mind

He quit smoking last year.
Han holdt op med at ryge sidste år.

Holde op med at + infinitive is the everyday way to stop a habit.

When will it stop raining?
Hvornår holder det op med at regne?

It works for the weather too.

I have changed my mind.
Jeg har ombestemt mig.

Ombestemme sig is reflexive: jeg ombestemmer mig, du ombestemmer dig, hun ombestemmer sig.

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