Hurt feelings and quarrels (fornærme, beskylde, vrøvl)

Taking offence

These are the words of a falling-out: who said what, who is hurt, and who is talking nonsense.

DanishEnglishhow it is used
fornærmeto offendvære / blive fornærmet — to be offended
beskyldeto accusebeskylde nogen for at …
vrøvletthe nonsenseSikke noget vrøvl!
tårenthe teartårer i øjnene
følelsesmæssigemotionalfølelsesmæssigt hårdt
i forvejenalready; in advancei forvejen sur, købe i forvejen

The participle fornærmet does most of the work: you ask whether someone is offended.

Are you offended?
Er du fornærmet?
He was offended because she did not come to his party.
Han blev fornærmet fordi hun ikke kom til hans fest.

Beskylde for at

The accusation follows for at + infinitive, where English uses of + -ing:

She accuses me of lying.
Hun beskylder mig for at lyve.
He was accused of cheating.
Han blev beskyldt for at snyde.

Beskylde is the general word for accusing someone. When someone is formally charged in court, the word is anklage.

Vrøvl and i forvejen

Vrøvl is usually used like English nonsense, with no article or with noget: noget vrøvl, mere vrøvl, snakke vrøvl.

What nonsense!
Sikke noget vrøvl!

I forvejen means a state was already there before something new happened, or that you do something ahead of time:

He is already mad at me.
Han er i forvejen sur på mig.
You have to buy tickets in advance.
Du skal købe billetter i forvejen.

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