Wishes and condolences (شفاك الله، رحمه الله، عيد ميلاد سعيد)

Birthdays and the new year

عيد ميلاد سعيد('îdu mîlâdin sa'îd) is happy birthday and سنة سعيدة(sanatun sa'îdah) happy new year. The reply is شكرا, or ولك أيضا, and to you too. The كل عام وأنتم بخير you know fits both occasions.

The sick and the dead

Two formulas are the optative past of the last lesson, frozen. To someone who is ill, say شفاك الله(shafâka llâhu), may God heal you: the same spelling serves a man and a woman. About someone else, change the pronoun: شفاه الله, شفاها الله. The reply is شكرا, or آمين amen.

After the name of someone who has died, add رحمه الله(raḥimahu llâh), or رحمها الله for a woman.

My neighbor passed away yesterday, may God have mercy on him.
توفي جاري أمس، رحمه الله.tuwuffiya jârî amsi, raḥimahu-llâh

Welcome back

When someone comes home from a journey, or out of hospital, greet them with الحمد لله على السلامة(al-hamdu lillâhi 'alâ s-salâmah): thank God you are safe. The answer is الله يسلمك, may God keep you safe.

At the table

whenyou saymeaning
before the mealشهية طيبة(shahiyyatan tayyibah)bon appétit
to someone eating, or just doneصحة وعافية(sihha wa âfiya)enjoy it, may it do you good
to someone drinkingبالصحة(bis-sihha)to your health

شكرا answers all three; to صحة وعافية people often reply الله يعافيك, may God give you health.

Meeting someone new

فرصة سعيدة(fursatun sa'îdah) (a happy chance) is said to someone you have just met, often as you part. The polite reply is وأنا أسعد, and I am happier.

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