Reflexive and Reciprocal Pronouns: Forms and Core Pattern

Hungarian uses the magam series when an action returns to its subject and egymás when two or more participants act toward one another. The crucial formal difference is that the reflexive changes for person, whereas egymás has one base and takes whatever case its role requires.

This page establishes those forms, including emphatic “self,” postpositional phrases, and the ambiguity of maga. See the usage page for communicative meanings and the contrast page for difficult choices. Unless marked otherwise, the forms are neutral modern standard Hungarian.

The magam person paradigm

The reflexive must agree with the person and number of its antecedent. Its basic forms look like possessed forms of maga, historically “self.”

PersonBasic reflexiveAccusativeExample meaning
1st singularmagammagamatmyself
2nd singularmagadmagadatyourself
3rd singularmagamagáthimself / herself / itself
1st pluralmagunkmagunkatourselves
2nd pluralmagatokmagatokatyourselves
3rd pluralmagukmagukatthemselves

Reggel megvágtam magamat borotválkozás közben.

I cut myself while shaving this morning.

Nézzétek meg magatokat a tükörben!

Look at yourselves in the mirror!

In everyday informal speech, first- and second-person magam, magad often occur without an audible accusative -t when the object role is already clear: megütöttem magam. The full forms magamat, magadat are always transparent and correct; the shorter variants should be recognized, not mechanically extended to third person. Megütötte maga does not neutrally replace megütötte magát.

Because reflexive objects are definite, the verb uses the definite conjugation: látom magamat, not látok magamat. The agreement inside the pronoun identifies its referent; an uncontrasted subject pronoun is usually unnecessary.

Ne hibáztasd magad mindenért.

Don't blame yourself for everything.

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Match the reflexive to the subject before adding its case: segítek magamnak, segítesz magadnak, segít magának. English “myself/yourself” marks this contrast lexically; Hungarian marks it inside the same mag- family.

Adding cases to the reflexive stem

The basic person ending remains visible when a case suffix follows. Vowel harmony and consonant assimilation then apply normally.

Function1st singular3rd singular1st plural
accusativemagam-atmagá-tmagunk-at
dativemagam-nakmagá-nakmagunk-nak
inessivemagam-banmagá-banmagunk-ban
allativemagam-hozmagá-hozmagunk-hoz
instrumentalmagam-malmagá-valmagunk-kal

The instrumental deserves attention. Underlying -val/-vel assimilates to a preceding consonant: magam + val → magammal, magunk + val → magunkkal. After vowel-final maga, the v remains: magával.

Csináltam magamnak egy erős kávét.

I made myself a strong coffee.

Mindig magával viszi a szemüvegét.

She always takes her glasses with her.

These are ordinary case-marked reflexives, not combinations of a nominative pronoun and a separate preposition. Compare the fused relational personal paradigms on the local-series forms page: velem “with me” is structurally different from magammal “with myself.”

Emphatic “self” and önmaga

An unsuffixed reflexive beside its antecedent can mean “personally” or “without help.” It still agrees with that antecedent.

Én magam javítottam meg a biciklit.

I fixed the bicycle myself.

A polgármester maga válaszolt a kérdésre.

The mayor answered the question personally.

Here the overt subject is licensed by contrastive emphasis. In a neutral answer, Megjavítottam a biciklit is enough. The compounded önmagam, önmagad, önmaga, önmagunk, önmagatok, önmaguk intensifies the reflexive, often in abstract or contrastive contexts: önmagában “in itself,” önmagáért “for its own sake.” These forms are neutral to formal, depending on the sentence.

A terv önmagában még nem oldja meg a problémát.

The plan by itself does not solve the problem yet.

Reflexives with postpositions

A postposition follows the appropriate reflexive form. Common combinations include magam előtt “in front of myself,” maga mögött “behind himself/herself,” and maguk között “among themselves.” The personal reference is carried by magam/maga/maguk, while the postposition expresses the relation.

Halkan beszélt magában, miközben várt.

He was talking quietly to himself while he waited.

A gyerekek maguk között osztották el a sütit.

The children divided the cookies among themselves.

Do not confuse magában “in himself/herself; to himself/herself” with the reinforced phrase önmagában “in itself/by itself.” Context and the antecedent determine the reading.

The reciprocal base egymás

Egymás means “each other/one another.” It does not agree for first, second, or third person. Instead, the case required by the verb or relation attaches to the one stable base.

SegmentationMeaningTypical construction
egymás-teach other (object)látják egymást
egymás-nakto/for each othersegítenek egymásnak
egymás-salwith each otherbeszélnek egymással
egymás-rólabout each othermesélnek egymásról
egymás mellettbeside each otherülnek egymás mellett

The subject must contain at least two participants, explicitly or through context. Egymást látjuk means “we see each other”; the verb ending supplies “we.” With accusative egymást, use the definite conjugation.

Minden héten írunk egymásnak.

We write to each other every week.

A két szomszéd alig beszél egymással.

The two neighbors barely speak to each other.

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First choose reflexive versus reciprocal: one participant acting back on the same participant gives mag-; multiple participants acting across the group gives egymás. Only then choose the case.

Polite maga and maguk

Capitalization does not reliably remove the ambiguity. Maga can be the third-person singular reflexive “himself/herself,” or a polite second-person address pronoun. Polite maga/maguk takes third-person verbs.

Maga kér egy kávét?

Would you like a coffee?

In contemporary usage, maga can sound neutral in an established relationship but distancing or abrupt in the wrong setting. ön/önök is usually safer in formal service, business, and official address. Reflexive maga is not an address form: Péter magát hibáztatja means “Péter blames himself.” In direct correspondence, optional Ön/Önök can signal extra respect.

Segmentation exercise

Split each form into its reflexive or reciprocal base and following morphology.

  1. magunknakmagunk + -nak: first-person plural reflexive plus dative.
  2. magammalmagam + -val: instrumental v assimilates, yielding mm.
  3. egymástólegymás + -tól: reciprocal plus ablative.
  4. önmagábanön + maga + -ban: intensified third-person reflexive plus inessive; final a lengthens before the suffix.
  5. magatokatmagatok + -at: second-person plural reflexive plus accusative.

Common Mistakes

❌ Én megvágtam én.

Incorrect — Hungarian does not reuse the nominative pronoun as a reflexive object.

✅ Megvágtam magamat.

I cut myself.

❌ Segítünk mi magunknak.

Awkward in a neutral context — mi adds contrast that the sentence does not require.

✅ Segítünk magunknak.

We help ourselves.

❌ A barátok látják magukat minden pénteken.

Wrong for the intended reciprocal meaning — this says that the friends see themselves.

✅ A barátok látják egymást minden pénteken.

The friends see each other every Friday.

❌ Sokáig beszéltek egymásval.

Incorrect — instrumental -val assimilates after egymás.

✅ Sokáig beszéltek egymással.

They talked with each other for a long time.

Key Takeaways

  • Magam, magad, maga, magunk, magatok, maguk agree with their antecedent; further case endings attach to these forms.
  • Egymás has no person paradigm, but takes cases and postpositions according to its role.
  • Accusative reflexive and reciprocal objects trigger definite verb forms.
  • Emphatic én magam contains a contrastive subject; neutral Hungarian normally omits the subject pronoun.
  • Polite maga/maguk uses third-person verbs and must be distinguished from reflexive maga/maguk by syntax and context.

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