More about se (se abrió la puerta, se lo di a Ana)

Things that happen by themselves

When something changes and nobody does it — a door opens, a glass breaks, the power goes out — Spanish puts se before the verb and makes the thing the subject. The verb agrees with it: se rompió el vaso, se rompieron los vasos. English often uses the bare verb (the door opened); with verbs like these, Spanish usually needs the se.

someone does itit happens by itself
Luis abrió la puerta.Se abrió la puerta.
He roto el vaso.El vaso se ha roto.
Apagué la luz.Se apagó la luz.
Suddenly, the door opened.
De repente, se abrió la puerta.
Luis opened the window and the door closed.
Luis abrió la ventana y se cerró la puerta.

The se also takes the blame off you: the glass broke, nobody broke it.

I didn't break the glass; it broke.
Yo no he roto el vaso; se ha roto.

Se goes first

You know se me ha caído from accidents. Whenever se meets another pronoun, se comes first: se me, se te, se le, se nos, se os, se les. Me se is a slip you will hear in casual speech, but it is wrong.

I have forgotten your name.
Se me ha olvidado tu nombre.
Have you guys lost something?
¿Se os ha perdido algo?

Se lo … a Ana

Le or les before lo, la, los, las becomes se. With a noun object, the le is usual but can be left out: Le di el libro a Ana or Di el libro a Ana. Once the object is a pronoun, the se is practically always there in conversation, even with a Ana at the end.

noun objectpronoun object
(Le) di el libro a Ana.Se lo di a Ana.
(Le) he devuelto la bici a Luis.Se la he devuelto a Luis.
The book? I gave it to Ana yesterday.
¿El libro? Se lo di a Ana ayer.
Have you told your mother?
¿Se lo has dicho a tu madre?

Common mistakes

  • El vaso rompió → El vaso se rompió.
  • Me se ha caído → Se me ha caído.
  • Lo di a Ana → in conversation, Se lo di a Ana.

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