Losing patience (¡ya está bien!, me da rabia, no hay más remedio)

When you have had enough

Living with neighbours brings noise, fees and rubbish on the landing. Spanish has a ready phrase for every stage: losing patience, being stressed, and giving in.

stagesay
you have had enough¡Ya está bien! / ¡Basta ya!
it makes you angryme da rabia
it disgusts youme da asco
you refuseno me da la gana
you are swampedestoy liado / me agobio
there is no timeno me da tiempo
you give inno hay más remedio / ¡qué le vamos a hacer!

Enough!

Both exclamations can stand alone, and both can take de + the problem:

That's enough noise! It's three in the morning.
¡Ya está bien de ruido! Son las tres de la mañana.
Enough complaints already!
¡Basta ya de quejas!

Dar + a feeling

These work like dar miedo and dar pena: the thing that causes the feeling is the subject, and the person who feels it is me, te, le, nos, os, les. A que clause after them takes the subjunctive.

It makes me angry that the neighbour never pays the fee.
Me da rabia que el vecino nunca pague la cuota.

No me da la gana is a blunt I don't feel like it, so it can sound rude.

I'm not paying the special assessment because I don't feel like it.
No pago la derrama porque no me da la gana.

Busy, stressed, out of time

Estar liado is to be swamped; liado agrees: liada, liados. No me da tiempo is the everyday way to say there is not enough time.

Will you call me later? I'm tied up now.
¿Me llamas luego? Ahora estoy liada.
Don't get stressed, we have time.
No te agobies, que tenemos tiempo.

Giving in

There's no other choice: we have to pay the special assessment.
No hay más remedio: tenemos que pagar la derrama.

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