Here is how to form the imperfect subjunctive of Italian's two most common verbs: essere (to be) and avere (to have).
The Forms of Essere and Avere
Good news: avere is regular in this tense. It uses its normal stem (av-) and the standard -ere imperfect subjunctive endings.
Essere is irregular and uses the special stem foss-, but it takes those exact same standard endings.
| Pronoun | Essere | Avere |
|---|---|---|
| io | fossi | avessi |
| tu | fossi | avessi |
| lui / lei | fosse | avesse |
| noi | fossimo | avessimo |
| voi | foste | aveste |
| loro | fossero | avessero |
Past Hopes and Beliefs
Use the imperfect subjunctive of essere and avere after past-tense expressions of hope, belief, or uncertainty. This is especially useful when describing the ideal qualities you wanted in a travel companion.
| I have always hoped that my friend was sociable. | Ho sempre sperato che il mio amico fosse socievole. |
| I looked for an adventurous person who had the desire to share the adventure. | Ho cercato una persona avventurosa che avesse voglia di condividere l'avventura. |
| I thought that you were flexible enough to adapt yourself easily. | Ho pensato che tu fossi abbastanza flessibile da adattarti facilmente. |
Hypothetical "If" Clauses
The imperfect subjunctive is also used right after se (if) to express hypothetical, imaginary, or unlikely conditions.
You will often see this paired with a conditional verb (like potresti, "you could" or "could you") in the main clause to describe what would happen if things were different.
| If I were more sociable, could you share the experience with me? | Se io fossi più socievole, potresti condividere l'esperienza con me? |
| Could you travel with me, if we had any interest in common? | Potresti viaggiare con me, se noi avessimo qualunque interesse in comune? |
Putting It Together
Since essere and avere are so common, you will frequently use them side by side when describing personalities and feelings.
| I preferred a person who was funny and had enthusiasm. | Ho preferito una persona che fosse spiritosa e avesse entusiasmo. |
