Tafadhali jibu kwa heshima.

Please answer respectfully.

Breakdown of Tafadhali jibu kwa heshima.

• tafadhali: please
• kujibu: to answer
• kwa heshima: respectfully

Questions & Answers about Tafadhali jibu kwa heshima.

What does each word mean, and how does the sentence work?

• Tafadhali = please (politeness marker).
• jibu = answer/respond (imperative form, addressing one person).
• kwa = with/in/by (preposition forming an adverbial phrase).
• heshima = respect.

Putting it together: kwa heshima = with respect = respectfully. The sentence is a polite imperative: Please answer respectfully.

Is tafadhali required? Where can it go in the sentence?

It’s optional but softens the command. You can put it at the beginning, middle, or end:

• Tafadhali jibu kwa heshima.
• Jibu, tafadhali, kwa heshima.
• Jibu kwa heshima, tafadhali. All are acceptable; sentence-initial feels most request-like.

Is jibu singular? How do I address multiple people?

Yes, jibu addresses one person. To address a group, add -ni:

• One person: Jibu kwa heshima.
• Several people: Jibuni kwa heshima. With please: Tafadhali jibuni kwa heshima.

How do I say “Answer me/him/her/it (the question) respectfully”?

• One person, answer me: Tafadhali nijibu kwa heshima.
• Several people, answer me: Tafadhali nijibuni kwa heshima.
• One person, answer him/her: Tafadhali mjibu kwa heshima.
• Several people, answer him/her: Tafadhali mjibuni kwa heshima.
• One person, answer it (the question, swali, class 5): Tafadhali lijibu kwa heshima.
• More explicitly: Tafadhali jibu swali kwa heshima.

How do I make the request more polite or formal?

Use request frames or modals:

• Naomba ujibu kwa heshima. (I request that you answer respectfully.)
• Samahani, unaweza kujibu kwa heshima? (Excuse me, can you answer respectfully?)
• Very formal set phrase: Kwa heshima na taadhima, naomba ujibu. (With respect and deference, I request that you answer.)

Are there natural synonyms for kwa heshima?

Yes, with slight nuances:

• kwa adabu = with good manners/decency.
• kwa staha = with decorum.
• kwa upole = gently/politely.
• Antonym you’ll see in warnings: kwa dharau = disrespectfully.

Does kwa heshima ever mean “with respect to (a topic)”?

No. For “with respect to/about,” use kuhusu or kuhusiana na. Kwa heshima means “respectfully,” not “regarding.”

Is jibu also a noun?

Yes.

• Noun: jibu (answer), plural majibu (answers).
  • Examples: jibu langu (my answer), majibu yako (your answers).
• Verb: jibu (to answer/respond). Context disambiguates them.

How do I negate it? For example, “Don’t answer disrespectfully.”

Use the negative imperative:

• One person: Usijibu kwa dharau. (Don’t answer disrespectfully.)
• Several people: Msijibu kwa dharau. You can also say: Usijibu bila heshima. (Don’t answer without respect.)

What’s the difference between heshima and heshimu?

• heshima = respect (noun), as in kwa heshima (respectfully).
• heshimu = to respect (verb), e.g., Mheshimu mwenzako (Respect your colleague). You cannot say kwa heshimu here; use the noun: kwa heshima.

Is it rude to omit tafadhali and just say Jibu kwa heshima?

It’s a direct command and can sound firm or corrective, depending on tone/context. Adding tafadhali softens it into a polite request.

Where and when would people say this?

Common in classrooms, meetings, and online groups/forums to set a civil tone. You’ll also see broader versions like:

• Tafadhali tuchangie kwa heshima. (Please contribute respectfully.)
• Tujadiliane kwa heshima. (Let’s discuss respectfully.)

Pronunciation tips?

• Penultimate stress: ta-fa-DHA-li; JI-bu; he-SHI-ma.
• dh = voiced th in English “this.”
• j as in “jam,” sh as in “ship.”

Regional preference: is tafadhali the only polite way to ask?

No. Across East Africa, naomba (I request) is very common and often feels extra polite:

• Naomba ujibu kwa heshima. Also samahani (excuse me/sorry) can preface a request: Samahani, tafadhali jibu kwa heshima.

Can I move or expand the kwa heshima phrase?

Yes. It’s an adverbial phrase, so you can add emphasis or combine:

• Jibu kwa heshima na adabu. (Answer with respect and good manners.)
• Jibu kwa heshima kubwa. (Answer with great respect.)