Questions & Answers about Ég býð þér kaffi.
Because the verb bjóða “to offer/invite” takes the recipient in the dative case: the pattern is bjóða e-m e-ð (“offer someone something”). The 2nd person singular pronoun declines like this:
- nominative: þú (subject)
- accusative: þig (direct object)
- dative: þér (indirect object = “to/for you”)
- genitive: þín In this sentence the recipient is “you,” so we use the dative: þér.
No. Icelandic typically expresses “to/for someone” with the dative case alone, without a preposition, when the verb requires it. With bjóða, the recipient is dative: bjóða þér.
- til þín means “to your place/toward you” (movement/goal).
- fyrir þig means “for you” in the sense “on your behalf/for your benefit,” not the recipient of an offer. So here, just use þér.
Icelandic has no indefinite article (“a/an”). Bare nouns can be indefinite by default. If you need a definite meaning, Icelandic uses a suffixed article:
- kaffi = “coffee” (indefinite/mass)
- kaffið = “the coffee” (definite, specific coffee already known in context)
It’s the direct object, so accusative. For many neuter nouns, nominative and accusative look the same, which is why kaffi doesn’t change form. Useful forms:
- nom/acc sg: kaffi
- dat sg: kaffi
- gen sg: kaffis
- definite nom/acc sg: kaffið
bjóða is the infinitive. The finite verb must agree with the subject. With ég (I), present tense is býð:
- present: ég býð, þú/hann/hún/það býður, við bjóðum, þið bjóðið, þeir/þær/þau bjóða
- past: ég bauð, við buðum
- past participle/supine: boðið The vowel changes (bjóða → býð → bauð → boðið) are a regular strong-verb pattern.
Common, polite options:
- Má bjóða þér kaffi? “May I offer you coffee?”
- Má ég bjóða þér kaffi? (same, slightly fuller)
- Viltu kaffi? “Would you like coffee?”
- Viltu fá kaffi? “Would you like to get/have coffee?” All are idiomatic when offering someone a cup right now.
- bjóða e-m e-ð: offer someone something. Example: Ég býð þér kaffi.
- bjóða e-m upp á e-ð: also “offer/provide” (very common with food/drink and services). Example: Ég býð þér upp á kaffi.
- bjóða e-n í e-ð: “invite someone to” an event/occasion. Example: Ég býð þér í kaffi = “I invite you for coffee (come over).” Note: bjóða upp (without “á”) can also mean “to auction.”
Use the 2nd person plural dative ykkur:
- Ég býð ykkur kaffi. “I offer you (pl.) coffee.”
Standard word order puts the indirect object before the direct object: S V IO DO → Ég býð þér kaffi. Saying Ég býð kaffi þér is unusual and would sound marked or odd unless you’re doing special emphasis/focus. Stick with þér before kaffi.
- Negation: place ekki after the verb (and before the direct object): Ég býð þér ekki kaffi.
- Yes/no question: put the finite verb first: Býð ég þér kaffi?
Use bjóða e-n í e-ð:
- Ég býð þér í kaffi. = “I invite you for coffee” (come over). You can be more explicit:
- Ég býð þér í kaffi heim til mín. = “I invite you over to my place for coffee.”
Approximate guide (IPA + rough English hints):
- Ég [jɛːɣ] ≈ “yeh” plus a soft, fricative “g” at the end.
- býð [biːð̥ ~ biːð] ≈ “bee-th” (usually like the th in “this”; word-final ð can sound a bit devoiced).
- þér [θjɛːr] ≈ “th-YAIR” (th as in “thin”; é is like “yeh”).
- kaffi [kʰa.fɪ] ≈ “KAH-fi” (aspirated k; double f is long/strong). In fast speech, býð þér often simplifies so you mainly hear the þ of þér (the final ð of býð weakens before þ).
Use a cup word:
- Ég býð þér einn kaffibolla. = “I offer you a cup of coffee.” (accusative: einn kaffibolla) You can also say: bolli af kaffi = “a cup of coffee” (literally “cup of coffee”).
- Using the wrong case for “you”: don’t say þig; use þér (dative) after bjóða.
- Adding a preposition for the recipient: not til þín/fyrir þig here—just þér.
- Using the wrong verb form with ég: it must be býð, not býður/bjóða.
- Overusing the definite form of a mass noun: kaffi (indefinite) is normal when offering; kaffið means “the coffee” (some specific, already-identified coffee).
- Confusing bjóða (offer/invite) with biðja (ask/request). For example, Ég bið þig = “I ask you,” not “I offer you.”