Questions & Answers about bié ná zhège wèntí kāiwánxiào.
别 is a very common way to say don’t in Mandarin when giving a negative command.
So:
- 别拿这个问题开玩笑。 = Don’t joke about this issue.
It is very close to 不要 in meaning:
- 别拿这个问题开玩笑。
- 不要拿这个问题开玩笑。
Both are correct. In many everyday situations, 别 sounds a little shorter and more conversational, while 不要 can sound a bit fuller or slightly more formal/emphatic, depending on context.
A useful rule:
- 别 + verb phrase = don’t do...
- 不要 + verb phrase = also don’t do...
In Mandarin, commands often leave out the subject when it is obvious from context. Here, the implied subject is usually you.
So the full idea is:
- 你别拿这个问题开玩笑。
But in natural speech, 你 is often omitted because the listener already knows the speaker is addressing them.
This is similar to English imperatives:
- Don’t do that.
- not usually You don’t do that in this situation
If you add 你, it can sound more direct or emphatic.