Skilled actions (wissen zu)

A successful matchmaker doesn't just do their job; they execute it with exceptional tact and skill. In German, to express that someone is highly capable of doing something or has a special knack for it, we can use the verb wissen (to know) combined with zu and an infinitive.

The "wissen zu" Structure

While you normally use können to say someone "can" do something, using wissen + zu + infinitive translates closer to "knows how to" do something. It implies expertise, finesse, or a particular capability.

To use this structure, the conjugated verb wissen takes its normal second position in the sentence. The zu and the infinitive are pushed all the way to the very end.

Let's see this in action at a dating agency (die Partnervermittlung) dealing with a client (der Klient / die Klientin).

The new dating agency knows how to convince the male client.
Die neue Partnervermittlung weiß den Klienten zu überzeugen.

Adding Details

Any other information—such as adverbs or direct objects—is placed in the middle of the sentence, between wissen and the zu + infinitive bracket at the end.

For example, a matchmaker might need to be empathetic (einfühlsam) or arrange a blind date (das Blind Date).

She knows how to speak empathetically with the female client.
Sie weiß einfühlsam mit der Klientin zu sprechen.
The expert knows how to arrange a romantic blind date.
Der Experte weiß ein romantisches Blind Date zu arrangieren.

They might also use tools like a questionnaire (der Fragebogen) to ask questions discreetly (diskret). Notice how all these details stack up before the final zu + infinitive.

Based on the questionnaire, she knows how to ask discreetly.
Anhand des Fragebogens weiß sie diskret zu fragen.

Finding the Perfect Match

A skilled matchmaker is always looking for a commonality (die Gemeinsamkeit) between clients. Sometimes, the strongest bond is a shared aversion (die Abneigung) to something, like sports or small talk!

Our dating agency knows how to find commonalities between the clients.
Unsere Partnervermittlung weiß Gemeinsamkeiten zwischen den Klienten zu finden.
She knows how to ignore the male client's secret aversion.
Sie weiß die geheime Abneigung des Klienten zu ignorieren.