Dative reflexive pronouns (mir, dir, sich)

Dative Reflexive Pronouns

When a reflexive verb has a direct object—such as a body part or a piece of clothing—the reflexive pronoun shifts to the dative case. You are essentially saying that you are doing the action to or for yourself.

SubjectDative Reflexive
ichmir
dudir
er / sie / essich
wiruns
ihreuch
sie / Siesich

Notice that only mir and dir are different from the accusative forms (mich and dich). The rest of the pronouns remain exactly the same!

Grooming and Body Parts

In English, you might say "I wash my face." In German, you say "I wash to myself the face." Because the dative reflexive pronoun already establishes whose body it is, you simply use the definite article (der, die, das) instead of a possessive word like mein or dein.

Are you brushing your teeth?
Putzt du dir die Zähne?

Third-Person and Plural Pronouns

For er, sie, es, and sie/Sie (they/you formal), the dative reflexive pronoun is sich.

She is washing her legs.
Sie wäscht sich die Beine.

For wir (we) and ihr (you all), use uns and euch.

We are brushing our teeth now.
Wir putzen uns jetzt die Zähne.
Did you wash your hands?
Habt ihr euch die Hände gewaschen?

Clothing and Commands

This structure also applies when putting on clothes. The separable verb sich anziehen (to put on clothes) takes a dative reflexive pronoun when you specify what piece of clothing you are putting on.

You will frequently hear this structure used in commands (the imperative).

Put on your shoes quickly!
Zieh dir schnell die Schuhe an!
We are putting on our shoes.
Wir ziehen uns die Schuhe an.

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