Subjunctive for desires (vouloir que, aimer que)

Just as we use the subjunctive after expressions of emotion, we also use it to express our desires, wishes, and expectations for other people.

Vouloir que & Expressions of Desire

When you state that you want someone else to do something, use vouloir que (to want that) or aimer que (to like that) followed by the subjunctive mood.

I want you to respect this instruction.
Je veux que tu respectes cette consigne.

This rule holds true no matter how you express that desire. It works with the conditional je voudrais que (I would like that) as well as in negative sentences. Remember to contract que to qu' before a vowel!

I would like him to have a positive attitude.
Je voudrais qu'il ait une attitude positive.
We do not want him to cheat during the exam.
Nous ne voulons pas qu'il triche pendant l'examen.

Setting Expectations

The key trigger for the subjunctive here is the change of subject. The person doing the wanting is different from the person doing the acting. If you are just talking about your own desires for yourself, you simply use the infinitive (for example: Je veux m'appliquer - I want to apply myself).

This "change of subject" structure is perfect for discussing rules, demands, and classroom expectations.

The parents want their children to apply themselves this trimester.
Les parents veulent que leurs enfants s'appliquent ce trimestre.
The teacher wants the punishment to be strict.
Le professeur veut que la punition soit stricte.

Notice in the last sentence that the irregular subjunctive form of être (soit) is used.

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