Settling in and standing out (slå sig ned, skille sig ud, vise sig)

The pronoun follows the subject

All these verbs are reflexive: the pronoun changes with the subject.

subjectpronounexample
jegmigjeg klarer mig
dudigdu klarer dig
han, hun, den, detsighun klarer sig
viosvi klarer os
IjerI klarer jer
desigde klarer sig
We get by fine without a car.
Vi klarer os fint uden bil.

In a main clause the pronoun follows the verb (and the subject, if that comes after the verb). Adverbs such as ikke or virkelig come next, and a particle (ud, ned) comes last:

You really stand out in the red jackets.
I skiller jer virkelig ud i de røde jakker.

Same verb, new meaning

DanishEnglish
vise sigto turn out (vise: to show)
klare sigto get by, to do well or badly (klare: to manage)
skille sig udto stand out
slå sig nedto settle (make a home)
finde sig til retteto settle in, to feel at home
forholde sig tilto deal with, to take a view on
sætte sig ind ito familiarize oneself with
sætte sig forto set out to (+ at)
melde sig ind ito join (a club, a union)
It turned out that he was right.
Det viste sig at han havde ret.

Vise sig can also mean "to appear": Solen viste sig (The sun came out). English join takes no pronoun, but Danish says melde sig ind i. For a course or an event you tilmelde dig, and you leave a club with melde dig ud. Do not confuse sætte sig ind i and sætte sig for with plain sætte sig, "to sit down".

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