Love, faith and grief (fri, bede, sorgen)

Same spelling, a second meaning

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bede (om) to ask (for)bede to pray
bønnen the beanbønnen the prayer
fri freefri to propose
beskeden the messagebeskeden modest

Bede has the same forms in both meanings: beder, bad, har bedt. Bede om something is usually "ask for"; bede til Gud or bede for someone is "pray":

He has never prayed to God.
Han har aldrig bedt til Gud.

The verb fri (frier, friede, har friet) takes til + the person you propose to. The adjective fri "free" only has the forms fri, frit, frie:

He proposed to her on the beach.
Han friede til hende på stranden.

Beskeden "modest" is an adjective, so it takes adjective endings: en beskeden mand, et beskedent bryllup. Beskeden "the message" is a noun: Jeg fik beskeden.

They had a modest wedding with ten guests.
De holdt et beskedent bryllup med ti gæster.

Grief, and "it's no use"

sorgen is grief, the sorrow after a loss:

The grief never completely went away.
Sorgen gik aldrig helt væk.

nytte lives mostly in one frame: det nytter ikke (noget) at + infinitive, "it's no use doing something". Hvad nytter det? is "what's the use?"

It is no use crying.
Det nytter ikke at græde.
What is the use of arguing?
Hvad nytter det at skændes?

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